That's great and I'm glad you took the time to empathize with this person. I kinda feel like a small town is an advantage because I know everyone and they all know me so no surprises lol. My father is the best and I don't feel it's a bad hand I feel like it's a challenge and I love challenges. I got over feeling sorry for myself a long time ago and I've been feeling great ever since. And this group is great, lots of people get down and I feel I can help some of them thru it