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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
12 points

Is having a relationship difficult with a stutter?

Is having a relationship difficult with a stutter? Do you guys think having a relationship such as with your gf or wife is difficult when you have a stutter? Especially communicating ? Or would girls ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

The professor actually reacted nicely, she did not let the quality of my speech to determine her judgement. I guess she really wanted me to perform because she believed my work was worth it… however s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

I understand what you’re feeling and the thought process of it all. Yes, we are different. Our brains are wired differently. You have to remember nobody is concerned with you. Everybody is struggling...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
3 points

You just hv low esteem. Most of the time hottest girls are with average lookin men.. hv you evr thought why.. bcz these are men confident enough to carry their personality. Girls are mostky attracted ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
53 points

I think you have low self esteem and thats why you think think.   I personally have a very severe stutter. Yet I've had give girlfriends and am with my current one for 8 years already. Through stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
4 points

As a stutterer, a gf really helps with confidence and anxiety overall... It really decreases the stutter, wholesome fact to me...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2024
11 points

Does it work for people with get blocked or stutter out of nervousness or ptsd in certain situations? Like I can be fluent with strangers in certain situations or saying certain things. But saying th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2024
2 points

I have feelings for a guy who was a total jerk during our first interaction and I don’t know how to feel about it

I have feelings for a guy who was a total jerk during our first interaction and I don’t know how to feel about it It's true that we're all multifaceted, and we all have the capacity to grow. To make...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
1 points

Could it be that you're too afraid you would stutter? Slurring is a whole different thing. In society, oral communication is so valued that any diversion from the norm is noticed. It's not uncommon ...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightRepetitions & ProlongationsMedicalization / Neurodiversity+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
1 points

Thank you so much for your insight! I’m sorry that happened to you and that your professor didn’t understand :( I’m on Prozac now and that seems to be helping with confidence but I’m still getting adj...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
3 points

OMG, and I thought my parents were awful. You sound like you've been negatively conditioned not to speak because you were punished for stuttering. If you have been so silent with your crush that he ha...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
4 points

It’s not that I don’t think he’ll understand, but he’s from a very conservative part of the country. I’m just afraid that it’ll get written off as an “excuse” to get out of social interactions....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
37 points

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it Don't get me wrong, 9 times out of 10, people don't have any bad intentions when asking that. It's just that when I was younger, if s...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
1 points

I understand the anxiety you're referring to, because I felt defeated every day when I was trying to figure out which career path and school to go with. The stuttering is extra weight to carry, but y...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
1 points

When people react like that I stare then right in the face keep eye contact for the length of time it takes me to say my piece. THEY can feel uncomfortable about MY stammer. 50% of the time it works ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
2 points

Oh… I get you so much… I also studied linguistic (ironically, I’m good at it, what a joke) At first I was more confident and participated a lot, then less and less since my anxiety was growing, up un...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
6 points

" I have no money no job all because of this stutter. " That is simply not true. Having a stammer can be a massive ball ache- we all know that. But there are many many people who stammer who have gre...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
1 points

Not really. I justed asked since in my counties when you stutter people gets away from you and don't feel confident....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2024
1 points

I just want to come in here and say as a lifelong stutterer (27 y/o fm) who started law school last year, that despite stuttering in speech, the work is mainly written-focused. For example, many of th...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2024
2 points

I can definitely understand that. It’s like- on most days it doesn’t bother me but the instant I can perceive that someone else has noticed it or if the topic gets brought up in conversation I get a s...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment