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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Live your best life and make time to enjoy everything. Inspire those that still need a hero - especially little kids. Never hide again. Never quit....

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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I use to feel like this too but you derserve to live your life the way you wanted. I am becoming a speech language pathologist to learn more and help people that are like us. I was worried at first be...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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You are indeed a lucky guy to have discovered that our deficits don't define us. Even with our trials there is life to be enjoyed when we look beyond our limitations even though there is great divers...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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I realized just because we are different that doesn't mean our life are not normal it harder for sure. It took me minute to realized this mind set...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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very interesting. I guess its hard to say whether its permanent or not. In terms of what do, the biggest question is, "does it bother you?" If not, just go with the flow and try not to let fear tak...

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postr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Im finnaly happy

Im finnaly happy For the first time in my life, I'm happy. I'm going out with a girl. Greads in school are great. I cut negative people out of my life, and life is finally good. Before, I was insecure...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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I got my first job at a hospital. stuttered since 6th grade. of course I was nervous a lot because of my stutter. I definitely stuttered a lot. but I realized that nobody really cared and it was up to...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Indeed! I never really do stretching, but you should do whatever you feel works for you. It's all about gaining confidence as well. With Bread. If I block on Br, I will tell myself: "Already...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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The way to get over stuttering is not to subconsciously or consciously think ‘I’ll stutter/need perfect speech’ etc etc anything speech wise. U just speak if u have to say something or don’t. Acceptan...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Yes, I'm sure these events and feeling sound familiar or imaginable for most of us here. I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember, any kind of presentation was always closely connected to an...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
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I can feel your pain. I have the same issue whenever I tried to make my speech fluent and not stutter, I would tend to hold my breath and ending up stutter even worst. Throwing in filter "like ah" mul...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
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Same with me. I got tired and just accepted it and disclosed it to everyone. If you want therapy or a support system, type into Google "Speech Therapy near me" or "Stuttering support groups near m...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
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It does suck but it’s one of those things that you need to accept it and keep going it took me until now (20M) to fully accept it and now I’m going for an engineering degree...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
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You're good, this stuff is hard - but it is def possible to achieve really not caring about speech differences. Tell yourself that if someone reacts poorly, that's on them, you've done nothing wrong....

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
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I hope it really is achievable. I might try that. I guess we stutters tend to force to hurry things up as to make it seem normal just to stutter more. Mine is more of a BLOCK btw and the awkward silen...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
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Dude all of that is achievable - like I still have a stutter, no longer severe but noticeable and I'm about to enter my PhD in internet studies with an eye to moving into something games production du...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
4 points

As a severe stutterer too, I am letting you know all of those goals are possible. I am willing to bet that you have more of a fear problem than a stuttering problem. Not to say speaking is not hard,...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2023
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How is calling it cute infantilizing? The post is deleted now so your quote is all I have, but this sub is starting to get a little too negative imo. How are we supposed to encourage a positive self ...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2023
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Oh my god, thank you for sharing! I feel exactly like this but I needed someone to put it into words for me! I'm male, a little younger than you, and am currently starting to accept and appreachiate m...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
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I'm sincerely happy for you that you've reached a point of self acceptance. We could all do with more self love. But this- >The older I get (24f) the more I’m realizing how cute my lil stutter ...

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