I'm sincerely happy for you that you've reached a point of self acceptance. We could all do with more self love. But this- >The older I get (24f) the more I’m realizing how cute my lil stutter is. Made me cringe. Very infantalizing, and I'm not sure that is necessarily a healthy way to look at it. You can love yourself, you can love your stutter, but calling what is absolutely debilitating for so many people a "cute lil' stutter" probably ain't it.