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postr/StutterNov 4, 2019
9 points

Stuttering in your wedding vows?

Stuttering in your wedding vows? Hello all! I’ve been a long time lurker on this sub. I think the support you give each other is wonderful. I’m in need of some now. I recently got engaged to my boyfri...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & RomanceHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterNov 3, 2019
11 points

Adult Onset Stutter

Adult Onset Stutter Hello, I'm a 30 year old male who developed a severe stutter two years ago. I have no prior personal or family history of stuttering and am struggling with it. The block prevents ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesFeared Words & NamesBlocks & Stoppages+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2019
5 points

My two cents (or whichever currency you prefer): First, you need to stop paying attention to or focusing on what she does or does not do or what she may or may not think. Just simply ignore it. It's ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
3 points

Project engineer. I would have never guessed I'd have this job when I was younger and scared of speaking. Because it's pushed me out of my comfort zone it's helping. I host meetings daily and am doin...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
1 points

Same here. I'm nowhere near as good with Spanish as English but I have a wayyy harder time communicating in Spanish due to this. In English it's hard to even pick up I stutter because I can control it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
2 points

Totally. We need to be honest about who we are. Fooling people, or muzzling ourself, all the time is no way to live....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
4 points

I like to say I don't but I honestly lack that kind of confidence. Sometimes, I freak out internally whenever I have to answer the office phone at work or even order food....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterNov 2, 2019
6 points

100% way of happy living with your stutter

100% way of happy living with your stutter STOP GIVING A SHIT OF WHAT PEOPLE THINK...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 2, 2019
14 points

Be yourself

Be yourself In my opinion it is much better (and simpler) to just say what you want to say and stutter through it, than to be some person you’re not, eating food you don’t want to eat, avoiding many p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
2 points

Couple of remarks here, in the interest of contributing to the perspective sharing: - >**We stopped going** and well, I continued stuttering. I'm now 28 years old. Of course you continued. That'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
21 points

Tips, Techniques, and My Experience

Tips, Techniques, and My Experience As a life-long stutterer, it's truly hard to describe the relief to find this subreddit. When I saw it online, my first thought was "wow there's a subreddit for eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentExperiential Association+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
5 points

Yup! Two of my three ex-managers asked me this. And then went on to say I need to improve my communication skills in the annual review...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
3 points

My stutter sounds wierd how can I change it?

My stutter sounds wierd how can I change it? Hey I have been stuttering from childhood till now I'm 23 years old and my stutter sounds like a broken car, my brother and my father also have a classic s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
8 points

I think my stutter makes my boss feel uncomfortable...

I think my stutter makes my boss feel uncomfortable... I'm a first year grad student and I think my adviser feels uncomfortable (and sometimes avoids) speaking to me because of my stutter. Whenever I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
68 points

Not being able to say my name is making me very depressed

Not being able to say my name is making me very depressed I'm really tired of people treating me like shit because of my speech disability. Just today I was at a resteraunt and placed my order, they a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterOct 31, 2019
9 points

Late onset stutter

Late onset stutter Hello, I’m new to this community and have been reading a lot of your guys posts on stuttering. I am 20 years old and didn’t start stuttering until about 2 years ago when I was 18 an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterOct 31, 2019
44 points

We ain't got nothin to hide

We ain't got nothin to hide "... you just keep on walkin' 'cause you me and sister ain't got nothin' to hide." -- Scatman John Adult stutterer here who had a great presentation at work. Practiced eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation+2 more
postr/StutterOct 31, 2019
12 points

rant (apologies in advance)

rant (apologies in advance) Hey everyone, I (24M) have been dealing with a severe block since childhood. Thanks to it i fail 80-90% of basic interactions with people and almost all first impressions. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2019
2 points

Honestly I don’t think you need a another stutter person to relate. You are fine and I know some days can suck ass. 2 days ago I was ordering sub from subway. I had a block when I was picking my bre...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 30, 2019
5 points

Reception job?

Reception job? I’m currently looking for a new job (24F) and I’m interested in a few receptionist jobs. Have any of you had any experience in this job and if so what was it like? I’m good with talking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more