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postr/StutterDec 10, 2019
3 points

Struggling with using the phone at work

Struggling with using the phone at work I'm sure this has been posted about many times before, but I just need to get this off my chest. I'm pretty much at a loss with what to do. I've avoided using p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2019
35 points

I feel stuck

I feel stuck I have been looking for a job for the past month and unfortunately I have not had any luck, wherever I go it's either that I'm too late or that I need to call in first. Today one of my ap...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
1 points

My bus company actually uses electronic tickets, so I just always use my phone. I only occasionally need to buy a ticket from the driver. If you're really desperate, perhaps get yourself a little c...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
1 points

This happens to me too! I sometimes pretend as if I'm new to the area and that I'm finding it difficult to name the place or I tell the short-form of it or mumble the word slowly nd let the bus conduc...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
2 points

I always find single answers so difficult. You can't maneuver around what you want to say, you want to go to [Bus stop F], there's no other way of saying that name - which makes it extremely difficult...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
28 points

I would begin your presentations by telling you’re audience that you stutter. Maybe even make a little joke about it. I used to say something like “Ok guys I stutter so talking in front of groups is r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPublic Speaking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2019
3 points

I can relate to that to a certain extent, as the stutter usually kick in when I’m trying to hold back. On the other side, when I’m acting like there’s nothing holding me back and I’m on the roll of ex...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 8, 2019
21 points

missing great opportunities, over and over again

missing great opportunities, over and over again trying so hard all the time. moved away from my hometown and got a job in the city, found real friends, loving people, i'm independent. yet i'm 23 and ...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 7, 2019
9 points

Can a stutter be classified as Tourette’s?

Can a stutter be classified as Tourette’s? Gone through years of therapies for my speech (among other things) which have all proved ineffective but seeing as it’s the only treatment for stuttering, I’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentNeurological & Brain+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2019
2 points

If there's any way you can let your professor know ahead of time about your stutter, if they don't know already, I'm sure they will be understanding. Especially if you have a really good grade, they ...

School & WorkSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2019
2 points

It's always difficult. I needed a good speech therapist to help get me on the road to acceptance. I couldn't do it alone. FYI, >it’s went from severe to pretty mild now. i don’t really deal with ...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideBlocks & StoppagesRepetitions & Prolongations+1 more
postr/StutterDec 2, 2019
22 points

I left my friends at the bar and went home.

I left my friends at the bar and went home. I was sat at the table, everyone was around me talking and laughing, I've known my friends for years but I really felt like an outsider. When I did try to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 2, 2019
51 points

Relatable?

Relatable? -Substitute teacher insists on calling role -Someone tries to start a conversation -Not joining game chats because of stuttering -Pretending to listen to music so people don't talk to yo...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterDec 1, 2019
13 points

How do you get over the uncomfortable reactions especially from family and friends?

How do you get over the uncomfortable reactions especially from family and friends? The other night my family and I went out for dinner with some of our friends. At one point I wanted to add something...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
postr/StutterNov 30, 2019
39 points

Advice to Those Who Stutter - Life Changing Book (Link in Post)

Advice to Those Who Stutter - Life Changing Book (Link in Post) https://www.stutteringhelp.org/sites/default/files/Book0009.pdf Hey guys! I am new to this subreddit and the main reason I joined was ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Offered+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2019
2 points

I feel like if someone were to take this issue up to a higher level of authority at a school, it would be addressed, but if most people are like me, they aren’t willing to put themselves out there lik...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Access & RightsHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2019
1 points

Stay strong my stuttering brother. I got fluent for a whole year, 3 years ago. Im a moderate stutterer. Right now Its leaning to severe. The thing is I dont know wtf I did that made me fluent. I wa...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
2 points

>but they probably think I'm kind of an airhead at times (I'm a woman, mostly covert stutterer). I do the, 'Oh, gosh, what's that incredibly common word, I just can't think of it' thing. Are you m...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
1 points

I hate it, I'm literally at the point now where when meeting someone, I'll just say hi and not introduce myself. So it's like "Hi, I'm John Doe, nice to meet you" *Shakes hand* "Hi, nice to meet you"...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
10 points

Hey OP. I just wanted to say I totally understand how you feel. I don't think people think I'm slow, exactly, but they probably think I'm kind of an airhead at times (I'm a woman, mostly covert stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment