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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
2 points

That’s exactly the benefit. It was an ingenious development for stutterers. Obviously there are times when one cannot use it...we obviously have to make and answer some calls. But for my friends and f...

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postr/StutterJan 5, 2020
44 points

Starting my new job!

Starting my new job! I got a job as a dental receptionist and I start tomorrow! I’m really nervous but I hope to work through my stutter and overcome it. My biggest concern is answering the phone (th...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
2 points

IFKR. I have just stopped picking up calls altogether. They still make fun of me sometimes that if you're in a dangerous situation. Dont call him etc. I laugh along but still dint pick up....

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
1 points

Phone calls were (and still are to an extent) hard for me to get used to. I used to be similar to you and absolutely terrified of answering the phone or having to call someone. The only thing that did...

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Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

Listen...I really understand there are times when I can’t text...and I do not text during those times. I’m talking about something specific here. I was looking for a place to vent...not argue with som...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
5 points

I completely understand where you are coming from, but there are times where you can't just text: phonecalls from doctors, scheduling appointments, phone interviews, work calls, etc. There's so many b...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

With respect...no. I have had this response before...and...no. I will not face a fear that I have had since I have had a working memory. I am well beyond young adulthood, and I have faced this fear th...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
1 points

To answer everyone, No i am not in school. I flunked my first semester in all 4 classes with grades ranging from 11-34 . Ive been kicked out of the school and denied fafsa for the next year. The scho...

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postr/StutterJan 5, 2020
42 points

i’m sick of this

i’m sick of this 16M been stuttering for as long as i remember. just really needed to vent i’ve been holding all this in for quite some time. i usually stutter through blocks and lately they’ve gotten...

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postr/StutterJan 4, 2020
51 points

I have a date tomorrow, and I’m worried about how my stuttering is going to affect it

I have a date tomorrow, and I’m worried about how my stuttering is going to affect it Hello, I’ll start off by saying that I’m a 21 year old girl. I’ve never been on a date before but I finally have o...

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postr/StutterJan 4, 2020
37 points

I feel like I’m at the end of my rope.

I feel like I’m at the end of my rope. I’ve had a stutter my entire life. I thought I had reached the point of acceptance but I’ve realized that I’ve just done by best to suppress my feelings towards ...

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postr/StutterJan 2, 2020
7 points

Post Fluency - How not to be an outsider?

Post Fluency - How not to be an outsider? Am new to this subreddit but like everyone here it's a subject that's close to my heart. I'm 37 and have always had a stutter. There is no living memory befo...

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postr/StutterJan 2, 2020
26 points

I feel like my stutter can be completely cured.

I feel like my stutter can be completely cured. I have had a stutter off and on my whole life with the cause being my social anxiety and depression. If I'm feeling bummed or lonely or super bored I ha...

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postr/StutterJan 1, 2020
3 points

Observations after becoming an ESL teacher and learning another language.

Observations after becoming an ESL teacher and learning another language. Hey, I've always wanted to share my thoughts on this since I've thought it was interesting. Before college, I wasn't fluent wh...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2019
3 points

I also never really agreed with the idea that the stutter doesn't define me. If I'm being honest, most of the decisions I've made were based on some voice in the back of my head constantly doubting if...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2019
3 points

This is a super interesting question that I think has many facets. As humans we are very complex. We have so many areas to develop that end up defining us. A lot of people are defined by their careers...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2019
1 points

I defer to professionals (as is evident from what I've been saying, if you had paid attention, but that doesn't seem to be something you desire). It's the only sane route when it comes to knowledge. ...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2019
1 points

You're being completely unreasonable, but I can see that it's entertaining to you, especially the namecalling. You should act more mature if you want to claim to be mature. Nevertheless, for the sake ...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2019
1 points

See? I called it already, up above. You are not satisfied with me telling the truth. You instead want it to be the way you suspect it is. That's *your* problem, and I can't help you with that. - I o...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
4 points

Oooh i feel ya. Ya are stille ordering it so thats a big thing. Keep it up!!! I once had to order for 10 people and it took me 10 minutes to just order it haahaha. Its something about that setting....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life