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postr/StutterJan 10, 2020
46 points

Something that really fucks me off at work

Something that really fucks me off at work Hello I’m new to this so be nice pls👋🏼 20F. I’ll give you a bit of backstory, I’ve stuttered my entire life, ever since I could speak. I’ve had on/off spe...

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postr/StutterJan 9, 2020
77 points

Got called “drunk” on the phone

Got called “drunk” on the phone I was at work today talking to a client on the phone, and my stutter was so bad that they called me drunk. I tried my best not to cry and held it together, and I put hi...

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postr/StutterJan 9, 2020
7 points

Has anyone changed or wanted to change their name because of their stutter?

Has anyone changed or wanted to change their name because of their stutter? I’m at a bit of a crossroads. I have a stutter but I’ve become so good at managing it over the years that many people I firs...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2020
2 points

the company i work for put emphasis this past year on "diversity and inclusion" and they asked if anyone in the dept wanted to give a ted talk on the subject, so i took the bait with another colleague...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2020
2 points

Hi. 22F here and I have felt what you felt before and have had my stutter for as long as I can remember, but it does get better. After graduating college, I was terrified about not being able to find ...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2020
1 points

This! Not giving a shit could really help me greatly too. I have to try this "Fuck it"-attitude too and be my own self without trying to get around words and trying to hide my stuttering...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2020
1 points

That’s it exactly. Even here, on this thread, one poster (the person means well) said that I need to face my fear. To me, this is rude and pretentious (no offense intended). Why do I suddenly need som...

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postr/StutterJan 8, 2020
8 points

What motivates you to keep on living ?

What motivates you to keep on living ? Seriuosly my stutter these days is just so severe that all my hope for future is eradicated. I just have no motivation whatsoever to keep on living. Im all alon...

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postr/StutterJan 7, 2020
73 points

here's my college essay that i wrote about stuttering. it got me into duke

here's my college essay that i wrote about stuttering. it got me into duke When the recording was done, my camp counselor dragged the cursor over a wriggling patch of sound and snapped the delete butt...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

I can relate to that. I don’t ever talk in class unless I’m absolutely forced to or if I have friends. And I only have a few friends at that. I’ve never really been what you would call a “loser”, bu...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

It sounds like we are going through the same thing! And yes I agree only doing it more with help. It’s so scary. Thank you so much! x...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
3 points

I used my job to make my stutter better. Why don’t you view every phone call a opportunity to get better? When you do stutter, in a cool way just mention you have a speech impediment and you are worki...

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postr/StutterJan 7, 2020
27 points

i need help, i feel so depressed and hopeless

i need help, i feel so depressed and hopeless 17f hey, so i currently have a job (apprenticeship) within the field of admin work. i’ve been here 2 months. my job involves basic admin tasks, which is...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

Do you have access to a speech therapist or a regular therapist? I’m a bit older than you and if there’s one thing I’ve learned about stuttering it’s that the mental aspect of me worrying about some f...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

I don't think the situation as angry as,say when giving a speech. But I feel anxious as soon as I enter a conversation. Also I am a covet stutterer, for the outside world I am normal.But for me it's v...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
2 points

I only got picked a little bit by this one guy in my class, could be I got off with so little bullying because I was such a mute in class except with a few friends but that paid its price with me bein...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
2 points

I know this was posted a while ago but hey whatever lol. I’ve struggled with this so damn much and I go to a very small town high school with a bunch of assholes who make fun of everyone, so before ha...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
2 points

I usually order the thing I'm certain I won't stutter on, like at chilis I always order nachos lol. Another trick I use is I look for what I want, find it, tell a friend to order it for me while I go ...

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postr/StutterJan 6, 2020
26 points

this is ruining my life and has been for a while now

this is ruining my life and has been for a while now Today was our second day back at school after break and I had a very embarrassing moment in front of my class. We had to introduce a friend in fron...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
1 points

I can relate. When I get a new job, I always struggle at first with the phone. But after awhile, it becomes easy, because my brain adjusts. What never becomes easy, though, is just randomly answering ...

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