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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
9 points

Ordering drinks at a loud crowded bar in which I'm not familiar with is always difficult. It usually leads to a very embarrassing encounter and typically weighs on me for the remainder of the night. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
2 points

You took me back to my first day at work. Our orientation was going on in a conference room, every one casually introducing themselves. My heart rate was mimicking step function with my turn getting c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterMar 10, 2019
3 points

Awful day today + theory

Awful day today + theory I had a meeting with my French class + teacher today to discuss details of an upcoming French trip. Pardon my French, but holy shit, I stuttered so much. It was just a bunch ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2019
1 points

Yes. I stuttered severely when in grades school (under 10 years). It's not that I was bullied, but it was experiencing the "time standing still because I can't talk" moments - several times a day. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2019
2 points

This one is just for comic relief. I was in Biology in freshmen year, and I had to read something in front of the class. During this time, I got stuck on the word “come”. Now, this sounded like “come,...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2019
3 points

I loathe myself too much for stuttering that any (in real life) interaction feels like they pity me. Congrats on the marriage, by the way....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2019
7 points

My story is one of humor and fear. I used to work at a small restaurant, and I was cutting vegetables. I was all alone in the kitchen at the time. All of a sudden, I smell something burning. I turned ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2019
3 points

I'm sorry you have to live with a toothache. I know the feeling like you're all prepared to say a sentence fluently, but then all preparation just goes out the window when you're in the moment. Here'...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2019
1 points

My mom discredits it by saying “at least you don’t have cerebral palsy,” so I can’t really talk about it. She does spend money on therapy and devices to help so I can’t be mad about it...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentTreatment Decisions
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2019
3 points

I really hAte talking about anything other than surface-level feelings with anyone but my mom (sometimes). So I don't. Well actually, I'm starting to a bit more, but only with my closest friends. For ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2019
2 points

I feel like teachers call on me less, and when they do, they can be kinda rude about it. One of my teachers are giving me extra privileges, like the choice of wether I want to read aloud or not. It's ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2019
6 points

I don’t like it. Makes me feel like they just want to get the conversation over with, like I’m wasting their time. Often when people finish my words or sentences I just give up on trying to finish my ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 3, 2019
20 points

stutter/rant

stutter/rant Let me start out by saying stuttering is the fucking devil and I feel for each and everyone of you going through it. Now that that's settled i'd like to express how every time I stutter I...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2019
1 points

prolonged visibe bocks and repeated syllabus i have ost confidence in speaking too much...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2019
1 points

I’m okay around the people I’m usually around but I have the hardest time around my dad. I grew up with him paying so much attention about my stutter, and he is where I got my stutter from. Stuttering...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2019
1 points

Slowly but surely it will get better. This sentence really help me a lot. I know that it doesn’t matter what other people think about me, but I often forget this and let other people judge me in my mi...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationShame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2019
3 points

Oh man the times in school. Pretending to have to go to the toilet when one of those ”You have to talk”-classes starts and you just stay there staring at the mirror. Then when you get back you notice ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2019
1 points

I actually have been come over stutter for a couple of days once and I really was the most talkative person in my class. But now stutter came back so I keep silent most of time though I have a lot o...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2019
2 points

I thought I was the only one! I had my stutter since birth and no one else in my family had it except my grandmother! I’m always so self conscious of how my face looks when I stutter! My stutter has h...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2019
-1 points

I wanted to downvote you but then I realized you were commiserating. I hate when people do that. Dur dur dur she forgot her own name ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment