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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
2 points

I understand this pain too. Feeling anxious has made me skip events and classes before. If I dare to I could go back to every negative in my life and connect it to stuttering somehow. Hang in there....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2016
4 points

Not being able to accomplish a simple task such as talk on the phone. Because of this I feel inferior to normal people who can speak as easy as breathing. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
5 points

Chances are, they never will. Depending on who they are, you should just say something along the lines of "I'm glad your alright now, I'm still hanging in there" and move on with your life. They won...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
17 points

Being held back. I love chatting via text because I can cleanly convey my thoughts, humour and whatever it is I want to say. In person, I avoid many of the chances for conversation or input during a c...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
3 points

In 8th grade I won this student of the year award, and had to attend this ceremony. Prior to the ceremony I had no idea that each person from each school had to go up and say there name and what schoo...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
2 points

I understand how you feel. Just went to an event last night with a bunch of people from work. Felt like I couldn't contribute to the conversations at all. What made it worse was a girl whom also works...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2016
2 points

I remember switching schools to go to highschool when I was a freshman and being terrified. The first day of class we had to introduce ourselves. I was so nervous I could barely say my name when asked...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2016
2 points

So true, there is no rhyme or reason to this condition. You can speak several long sentences fine then you hit a block from hell out of nowhere. That's what makes it so emotionally exhausting....

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Cycles & RandomnessSeverity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2016
3 points

You're right, the analogy was somewhat flawed because obesity is a self caused condition. A condition that can be overcome rather easily with strong enough willpower. A stammer on the other hand is a ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2016
4 points

It doesn't work like that with stuttering. I have been busting my ass the past 20 years to reduce the severity of my stuttering. Tried every therapy available in my country. But all I got from it was ...

Causes & VariabilityTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationSeeking TherapyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2016
3 points

I have also spent a lot of time being unemployed. Last time was about 6 months, but i just got a new job a month ago. The reason i was unemployed that long was completely my own fault though. I just w...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2016
2 points

I relate to most of the stuff that you are saying. I have spent many years hating myself and blaming all of my issues on my stutter. Most of them have their roots from it sure, but at some point you j...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 30, 2016
13 points

Is this it? Is this shit all I will ever live for?

Is this it? Is this shit all I will ever live for? Fuck this. Please don't read this if you don't wanna ruin your mood. I can never succeed in anything. Nothing emotional here, I am just speaking fr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyStigma & BullyingSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJun 26, 2016
5 points

Covert?

Covert? Does anyone else here just not speak when they block and wait until it comes out without actually audibly stuttering? For example, if I'm in a group and I go to say something but feel the bloc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterJun 26, 2016
23 points

Sometimes I really don't like visiting this sub

Sometimes I really don't like visiting this sub All you folks mirror my own feelings on life with stuttering (which are, well, cynical to be concise) way too accurately! Seriously, stop being so much ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 25, 2016
6 points

Short Job rant.........failed my 5th McDonald's interview.

Short Job rant.........failed my 5th McDonald's interview. Got the call, manager saw me, everything was good. Until as usual I opened my mouth that is. A fucking train wreck Is what followed. As expec...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2016
3 points

I hate it too. That's why I don't talk much. Therefore my family thinks I'm antisocial, I'm about to lose my job because I don't interact well enough, every girl I know thinks I'm weird, I have no fri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2016
1 points

Hmm. Maybe as a last resort, could you go to the unemployment office to see what temporary jobs they might have?...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2016
1 points

I wish i knew. I've never had a job, and i just cant seem to get one no matter how hard i try. ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 13, 2016
3 points

Just out of curiosity ; does anyone out there knows what causes people to stutter? I have stuttered my entire life and I feel like it's really keeping me from getting an actual meaningful job.

Just out of curiosity ; does anyone out there knows what causes people to stutter? I have stuttered my entire life and I feel like it's really keeping me from getting an actual meaningful job. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Neurological & BrainGenetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency+1 more