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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2019
4 points

Went to a speech therapist 2-3 times. Once when i was in 5th class when my father died. My stammer got more severe around that time but i had it b4 as well. The therapy did help alot and i was a lot b...

Therapy & ProfessionalSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2019
2 points

I’m so sorry you had to go through that, it honestly broke my heart to read. I remember, I had a teacher like them too.. some people are cruel. Stay strong my dude <3...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2019
2 points

Ughhh this is the worst. Unprofessional to say the least. I remember when my middle school math teacher made fun of me. The WHOLE class laughed. She had a reputation for being a cunt, so I guess I sho...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2019
4 points

I cant express to you enough how it feels to be humiliated in front of people for something you can't control, its the worst feeling ever. Half the battle is powering through it. Stay strong, better d...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2019
8 points

Ah, this reminds me of a time when I had to recite a lengthy french poem for class. I spent a lot of time rehearsing until I knew all of the words by heart. Then, on presentation day when I had to rec...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2019
1 points

I would be exactly the same. It can be very hard to brush off. I once stuttered on a sobriety check, was worried they thought I was drunk so I told him I had a stutter, he said he didn't even notice (...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2019
3 points

After reading your story it made me realize how many things I’ve been doing in the past years that has been effecting my speech in a negative way. I replace words that I know I’m not going to stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
4 points

Yes to all three. Additionally, not avoiding any words, sounds or situations even if I did feel fear. And actively pushing out of my comfort zones by doing things that I wouldn't normally do, and qui...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
6 points

So you joined a programme (the mcguire programme?) Read john harrisons book And did voluntary stuttering to reduce fear anything else?...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
3 points

I shall save you my fellow stutterer!!!! The answer is simple my friend. What makes you stutter? Find out which situations make you stutter the most and put yourself in those situations. If you end t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2019
3 points

I had a cop do it to me last week. They were responding to the home alarm I set off at my cousins house. He usually has it disarmed when we go cut his grass. Not this time. It was pretty bad at that ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterAug 9, 2019
2 points

Tired if stuttering

Tired if stuttering I'm past the embarrassment. I legit just walk around and stutter in people's faces at this point and the shame of it is gone. I forced myself a few years back to talk every day, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterAug 8, 2019
7 points

How to make eye contact while stuttering?

How to make eye contact while stuttering? Whenever I stutter, I tend to look away from the person to get the words out, and I usually look at the ground. I don’t feel comfortable making eye contact ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2019
2 points

I know what you mean man.I once ran into a an old teacher of mine from back when I was in elementary school.I couldn't even say ''yiasou'', which is Greek for ''hello''.Worse still, when people who do...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2019
6 points

Oof. I can relate to this a lot. I was asked on a bus once where is some location and I explained to them where it was but stuttered hard and somewhere in the middle of my sentence they started lookin...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterAug 6, 2019
7 points

Feeling lonely and feeling like a freak compared to everyone else

Feeling lonely and feeling like a freak compared to everyone else High School has been very difficult. I've had no relationships. I've had so called friends who only interact with me for answers, or i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
postr/StutterAug 5, 2019
2 points

I just finished a part-time job interview.

I just finished a part-time job interview. It was not that bad. I work at a cafe in the morning. The most awful moment for me is to say good-bye words to customers. I don’t know why, but I have the fe...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterAug 4, 2019
14 points

Presentation in front of the whole class

Presentation in front of the whole class I'm really glad i fond this sub, because i'm really stressed right now (i've been stressing for the last 5 days) since we have a geo presentation tomorrow. We'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2019
3 points

I hate introducing myself, especially in front of a bunch of people. I can see them all shifting awkwardly as they wait for me to say my name, and I know that this is the first impression people get ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2019
1 points

I'm a woman. Stuttering since 4th grade. I remembered it was the time my teacher pushing my head and said I was a fool to ask such question. And since that, my self esteem had decreased significantly....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception