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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2020
1 points

It depends on how covert you are. I’m not covert at all. If I speak for more than like two sentences to you or even a few words, you’ll know I stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2020
3 points

We can actually be pretty *in*visible, was my point. Many stutterers actively hide their handicap. Something like a wheelchair or the white cane of blind people is more visible, wouldn't you say?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 31, 2020
53 points

Confront about my stutter

Confront about my stutter My stutter really have taken toll on me this semester. A lot of presentation needed to be done and the fact it's all online just worsen the situation. Last wednesday I had an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersFeared Words & Names+1 more
postr/StutterOct 30, 2020
4 points

Afraid to go to therapy

Afraid to go to therapy Hey There everyone. ​ I'm a life long stutterer and would rate my severity 9.5/10 maybe. It takes a minute or so sometimes to get 2, 3 words out and its frustratin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
2 points

In my opinion, I wouldn't begin saying that you have a speech impediment. Let your speech speak for itself. I think that when you do that, you reinforce your fears of stuttering and make it worse. Let...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2020
1 points

I can’t count how many times women told me I was super confident and awesome because I didn’t hide my stuttering. Overt stuttering in a guy or girl is a sign of confidence. Otherwise they’d be hiding ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2020
5 points

I used to be terrified of the phone. I am 34 with a severe stutter. The first thing you should say is some form of, “I have a speech impediment please bear with me.” I have surprisingly only been met ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

I’ve never had trouble getting boyfriends, however when I was a teenager or in my early 20s I would do anything I could to hide my stutter, even with my boyfriends. I would never call them on the phon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
2 points

I couldn’t have said it better myself! I’m in the exact same boat. 41 years old now just been made redundant and my covert stutter reality is rearing it’s ugly head as now I’m confronted with the fact...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 23, 2020
54 points

I had my first formal job interview today.

I had my first formal job interview today. And it went really well! I've worked before but I never had to do the interview it was just a trial shift and then at the end the manager said "You want the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2020
3 points

Yep. I was at an event for my job and we were being asked which city branches we worked at. I struggled for about a minute in front of a huge crowd trying to say where I worked and eventually just gav...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2020
2 points

I've had a couple of presentations this week and all have gone the same, stuttering a lot. Don't pay attention to what others say, focus in what you have to do and do it, leave the laughs behind. If y...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2020
3 points

Definitely has the ability to take a toll on you. Stuttering can form you into a repressed, hidden, people pleasing and almost submissive version of yourself. Luckily though, all of those traits I t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2020
1 points

I have a severe stutter and I always let my interviewers know beforehand that I stutter and that the interview will take longer as a result. Own it and disclose it so that it’s not a surprise to them....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2020
1 points

Been there. Multiple times. I’ve always found that helps mentally a little if they know before hand, so I usually say it at the top of the interview if I’m not sure that I’m having a good speaking da...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2020
5 points

I'm sorry you experienced this. I've had a severe stutter all my life and recently managed to reduce it to just a mild stammer. My first job was at McDonald's and I remember they would always put me o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 20, 2020
5 points

Stuttering has gotten severe -

Stuttering has gotten severe - Hi everyone, Just venting here and trying to see if anyone has any advice or has gone through anything similar? My stuttering has gotten severe over the past few years...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2020
2 points

I block a LOT and for LOMG periods of time (like half a minute) and it is literally the WORST part of stuttering Im in your boat man, i literally cant i troduce myself. Sometimes people will ask me i...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
1 points

lol when I was feeling down about my stutter I also spent time calling random companies and takling to their customer service people to help me get over the fear of disclosing....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
2 points

On the girls front, you miss every shot you don’t take. Or as Shia Would say... just do it. Get out there and see what happens. I struggled with girls through my teens. Around 17 I decided I would get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance