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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2019
1 points

The movie brought me to tears as well, both in the opening scene when he was trying to give the speech, when his father was urging him to just spit it out, and when he gave the final speech at the end...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesListener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2019
4 points

Disagree. When talking about negative portrayals, OP specifically mentions people who are portrayed as "un-assertive, or generally anxious as a result of their stutter." George VI is portrayed as extr...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 8, 2019
21 points

missing great opportunities, over and over again

missing great opportunities, over and over again trying so hard all the time. moved away from my hometown and got a job in the city, found real friends, loving people, i'm independent. yet i'm 23 and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 8, 2019
15 points

Today i did my first presentation , kinda.

Today i did my first presentation , kinda. Today was a really special day for me , i did my first presentation in my life in one of the subjects i have in college in my first year. i was actually goin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2019
6 points

I’m 16m as well and I’m in secondary school. One story I can remember is when I was asked to read a paragraph in history and I was stuttering a lot. In the middle of me reading another teacher walked ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2019
8 points

The last thing you should be is to feel ashamed. Yes, it can be embarrassing but people listening to you will be understanding and empathic. Those people that don’t are not worth knowing. Keep goin...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterDec 6, 2019
13 points

not being able to answer questions in class

not being able to answer questions in class (16 M in high school) so i’ve been stuttering pretty much as long as i can remember and it’s went from severe to pretty mild now. i don’t really deal with r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2019
2 points

Stutter here, i feel you man, i couldn't continue my master degree because of my stutter afraid of the presentation i have to do at the end of the year, during university i only did one project presen...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 5, 2019
50 points

Feeling hopeless

Feeling hopeless I have a stutter that’s on the milder side if I avoid probable words but becomes very noticeable if I don’t. I’m tried or living life with a 10 year old vocabulary because I can’t say...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 3, 2019
13 points

Only stuttering when comfortable

Only stuttering when comfortable While i am thankfully happy that my stutter doesnt effect me in public situations, it really hurts to be talking to my friends and family. Watching them try and wait f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterDec 3, 2019
84 points

Humiliated

Humiliated I'm so embarrased and humiliated right now. I just got out of presentation for my first period class and I did absolutely terrible. I stuttered on almost every word and everyone can just he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2019
3 points

Someone said this to me once too. But not as if they were concerned, they were laughing. And it was at work, not school. You hope people grow out of that shit but I've been bullied way more as an adul...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
4 points

I know exactly how you feel. Whenever if I try to add a joke to a group conversation, all the smiles and laughs immediately stop whilst everyone patiently waits for me to finish. Once it is finished,...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
3 points

She was just taking attendance and asked why there was a star next to my name. I didn't know there was until then, but needless to say myself and the class knew why, and she probably realized it befor...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
4 points

I'm not trying to one-up here, but try having a substitute teacher ask you why you have a star next to your name on the roster....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
1 points

I get upset about this too. I know it's not their fault, and I don't really know how I expect them to act, but still, it makes me feel not normal...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
2 points

My teachers will think I don't know how to read and say the words for me. It makes me, not only, feel bad about my stutter, but just stupid....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
6 points

Story of my life. I had a severe block and I was asked if I was having a stroke...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
13 points

The worst is when I’m trying to order food at a restaurant or talking to some kind of service person. My friends and family and coworkers all know I stutter so they just wait patiently till I get it o...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 2, 2019
51 points

Relatable?

Relatable? -Substitute teacher insists on calling role -Someone tries to start a conversation -Not joining game chats because of stuttering -Pretending to listen to music so people don't talk to yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more