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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2019
2 points

I agree! Especially in an job interview or situations like that, its reallllly hard not to think about it, for me at least :(...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2019
1 points

Oh yea 100%, anxietie's a killer, happens to me a lot. Just keep your cool, don't lose eye contact and be confident...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2019
1 points

I think everyone is aware of these things, because everyone wants to sound smart and fluid when they're speaking, but I think our situation makes us *hyper* aware of how we sound and how the words are...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2019
4 points

Totally! When you're feeling anxiety and you're overthinking about what you're saying, you're not allowing yourself to speak freely. The more tense you are the harder it is to keep yourself from stutt...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2019
5 points

Doesn’t ‘haunt’ me as much anymore, but had to do a presentation for work and was told it was a small group - I walked into an auditorium with every seat full. The person speaking presenting before me...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2019
1 points

I'm learning the same as you and attending a bootcamp next month. I advise you to explore a bootcamp too. As far as the interviews go, I try to speak as loud as possible and not worry about my speech....

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2019
1 points

I mean, that's not necessarily a bad thing, is it? Of course, if it disturbs the speech performance, I suppose it's bad. But being able to focus on those details might lead to some sort of insight (re...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMay 18, 2019
5 points

Paying attention to your voice as you speak

Paying attention to your voice as you speak Do any of you stutterers have this problem of paying attention to how the words flow out of your mouth and constantly judging how fluently and articulately ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2019
3 points

Thanks for a detailed reply. I agree, we judge ourselves too damn hard because of our stutter....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMay 14, 2019
18 points

Is this a common issue?

Is this a common issue? I’ve noticed a lot of time when I am speaking I understand what I am saying. I feel like I’m being fluent. Then the other party communicates they don’t understand me. My sel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2019
1 points

Sorry mate, I stutter when I talk and think in my head. Even while reading!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
3 points

I think it gets the attention off the mechanisms of speech. Give it a try. Look yourself in the eyes like you would another person....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
1 points

I never tried speaking in front of the mirror but have heard it helps with stutter. I always thought it would make me more self conscious.......

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2019
1 points

You can either take a half second pause and do the same technique or restart the whole word or sentence using the technique. It just depends on how you would like your fluency to be. You don’t even re...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2019
3 points

Make sure to practice, knowing your material is, at least for me, the most important part. Creating a PowerPoint, if possible, helps me because it takes their eyes off of me, makes me less nervous. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2019
2 points

I suppose English class demands more subjective questioning and answering. Such as 'what do you think of this or that?' Those subjective questioning can certainly make us more tense as our thought pro...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterMay 5, 2019
17 points

First job interview (read)

First job interview (read) Hey guys, I’m 16 year old guy that has a stutter. I had my first interview today at McDonalds and I don’t know how to feel about it. I’m a very confident person and decently...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterMay 2, 2019
3 points

Can't say "Initial"

Can't say "Initial" I have a new job where I have to say a lot of long words to clients and coworkers. I'm doing mostly good but for some reason when it comes to signing and initialing the documents, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2019
2 points

Bizarre. I also feel extremely calm in math class, and super tense in English. I feel like for me, in math, the answers are usually very short, while in English, they can get complicated and long....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterMay 2, 2019
7 points

Math vs. English class

Math vs. English class I have math period 3, and english period 4. The second I walk into the math room I feel so much more fluent, I raise my hand and answer questions from my teacher, and ask questi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment