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postr/StutterJun 11, 2024
2 points

Phone calls

Phone calls Phone calls make my stammer so much more worse. As soon as I get off the phone I am so much more fluent than I was on the call. Beyond frustrated😭...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
4 points

A strong approach avoidance conflict. Simply put, you really don't want to stutter.Ā ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

Read Ellen Marie Silverman’s book and practice socially. It’s all I can say. It would take over an hour to tell u every single thing I did to make my speech fluent lol. But essentially it’s what she s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/stutteringJun 11, 2024
1 points

Hi, that is the tricky question I keep asking myself too. I think almost every stutter have contexts in which they don’t stutter so badly or at all. I don’t stutter with coworkers, but I do a lot if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
2 points

Same with me, I got more and more fluent as I aged, as I settled in life, as I stopped being triggered by anxiety/stress. Speech Therapy never worked for me either, I had speech therapy from Kinderga...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
1 points

You explained it better with easy onset. It does work. But it’s constant work. Then one day, you get faster and you don’t think about most of the time. But we are out here....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
2 points

That sounds like something I’d been told a few years ago. Pretty sure they called it ā€œsoft onsetā€(?) or something like that. Ease into the consonants. Thanks for the response. I generally feel like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
2 points

I enter into hard consonants with a soft breathy low volume sound then increase gradually to get through the block of the consonant. It sounds unnatural at first, but with time you get faster and it b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/overcome_stutteringJun 10, 2024
1 points

In my presentations, all the class suddenly looks at me pathetically and they think that I'm nervous, guys I'm not nervous... I speak usually like this, I really get hurted from the way they're lookin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
2 points

Been there, still am, we tried to find shows for my son that has a little slower speech, but to be honest it's not easy. The characters are also talking way faster than natural speed for children that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHome Support
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
1 points

>no one realizes this is a diagnosable thing and she should be in therapy for it Depends on the therapy. Most of my experiences with therapy were a waste of time and even had a negative impact. Becau...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentTherapy Experiences+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
4 points

Been stalking to forum for a while and this is the first post I comment on. I want to tell my story and how I view my stuttering A bit of background : 26 years old, been stuttering for most of my li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+3 more
postr/StutterJun 10, 2024
2 points

Mild stammer - help needed

Mild stammer - help needed I’m 22 (M) and am starting a job doing in sales in about 2 months. I’ve never had a stammer up until the lockdown (18). It has never been too bad but I just use filler words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
2 points

It is a software problem but I don't think my software is any more faulty than an average human. I mean consider this - A person jumping from the top of a tall building. He cannot do it. If he tries, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
4 points

What you describe seems like blocks which is a type of stuttering. I think you have stuttering probably a mild one. Also, repeating a sentence triggers stuttering in most people who stutter. For the ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
1 points

Damn protective behaviors hit home. Im so bad with it. My typical response to an awkward social experience in order to block out the bad feelings is to leave or avoid having to face that person again ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 9, 2024
8 points

Should I get speech therapy?

Should I get speech therapy? I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask but I don't use reddit much and this is the best subreddit I could think of. I'm a 19M and I've always talked fast and some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
1 points

True, it could be anything. The fact that she stayed on the phone for half an hour seems to indicate it is due to the stutter though. People don’t want to immediately shoot down someone with a disabil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJun 9, 2024
2 points

I started a bank job and idk how to approach it with a stutter

I started a bank job and idk how to approach it with a stutter So I found out my stutter mainly comes from anxiety, if I’m comfortable with friends I barely stutter, and when I do it doesn’t both...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 9, 2024
5 points

Working as a door to door salesmen with a stutter

Working as a door to door salesmen with a stutter Got a new job as a door to door salesmen and it's been interesting to say the least. My stutter was really bad when I was a kid, like stutter on ever...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career