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postr/StutterJul 1, 2023
35 points

It’s not about wanting to fit in…

It’s not about wanting to fit in… It’s the consequences of not fitting in that bother me. It’s the fact that I’ve been unemployed for over 6 months and nobody wants to hire me. It’s the fact that m...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2023
6 points

Don't worry about the rant! Most people here love reading about various perspectives and are constantly trying to learn new things. I'm in my early twenties and it's good to know what the possibiliti...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Loneliness & IsolationEmployment & CareerFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterJun 30, 2023
13 points

How do you make friends in your 30s?

How do you make friends in your 30s? I think most people in my shoes are usually younger people in college or high school. Mine is different, I had friends from high school and college by the virtue o...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerFriendships & BelongingStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
4 points

The entire museum/science education industry doesn't care one bit and neither does academia in my experience. I stutter in a public facing role and they are fine with it....

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
9 points

If he's stuttering at 18, he probably will for the rest of his life. As long as it doesn't stop him from pursuing opportunities, it shouldn't be a problem. I'm a planetarium director and professor in ...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
3 points

This is so amazing. I love hearing it. My stutter came back around out of the blue when I was about 23, I was working at a funeral home and my boss belittle me constantly about it. I feel it just made...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
8 points

That was the complete opposite for me at my old job lol. My boss was clearly annoyed by my stutter. At my current job though, my Dad is my boss, so he supports me :)...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterJun 27, 2023
77 points

My boss lets me stutter freely at work

My boss lets me stutter freely at work I work for a small creative agency in a big city and we are moving locations in a few months. Since we are a small team, I'm tasked to make and answer phone call...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2023
3 points

I could transform my life with that kind of money and never had to worry about my income again. Ask teenage me this question and he would take never stuttering again but older me has learned to manage...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2023
2 points

Here's the thing.. Stuttering doesn't bother me that much anymore. And thankfully was never a huge issue. Is it frustrating? Yes. But being able to invest a million dollars.. leaving a chunk to remode...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2023
3 points

Reading this post super anxious from a work presentation in front of about 120 people (half online). Stuttered more than I usually do and was definitely nervous. Was my first presentation in person si...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2023
2 points

Here is some truth for you. Tech jobs are the best jobs for people with a stutter. If you're not hired, then you are probably not good enough. It's a hard pill to swallow. Stutter is 100% not the reas...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
1 points

I go through the same thing in my life on an almost daily basis, I just recently quit my job with a well respected company due to having to make phone calls, In my mind, when i stuttered while i was o...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
4 points

I quit my previous job of years due to this, for a job that’s tougher on my body but i don’t have to talk as much. The anxiety of talking on the phone for a nice company was killing me....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
6 points

I have no idea why, but I'm in the most extroverted job given that I am so introverted. I am a national trainer for a large medical facility, and I train medical staff (doctors, nurses, social work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 26, 2023
8 points

Anyone else keep ending in jobs that require a lot of talking/client interaction by chance?

Anyone else keep ending in jobs that require a lot of talking/client interaction by chance? This is just a random thought that I had but I somehow keep getting jobs and roles that require a lot of tal...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2023
13 points

Honestly whenever I’m in a new crowd of people, I just go about things as business as usual. I’m 30 years old and I’ve learned to accept how things are. My stutter is usually the last thing I think ab...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2023
6 points

Life long stutterer here. I would say I was on the level of non verbal when I was a kid as every word I spoke I stammered on. Now 40. I only stutter when I’m really nervous or mad. 99% fluency any ot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
4 points

i always hoped it could just be crying, unfortunately it drives me more weak and miserable, also cold feelings afterwards, can’t feel excited for something or sad about other thing. i’m 25 years old a...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
2 points

Yeah I'm in the same boat that you was in, i don't really go outside (except for work or when i need something to eat) i'm overweight don't really exercise at all and living paycheck to paycheck i was...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career