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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
3 points

I'm 25m and I feel the same. I think it's not a speech defect that causes me to stutter, rather it has more to do with the urge of being perfect in my speech and not making any errors which causes mor...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
2 points

I feel like most stutterers won't agree but I actually really hate it when people are overly patient with me and my stutter. Like they just stay quiet and stare at me until I can get the words out. It...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
1 points

Stuttering when nervous is *literally* the caricature of stutterers. “T-t-there’s a gggggghost[insert other scary situation]!” has been done enough. Plenty of people who stutter actually have hard ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterAug 19, 2024
16 points

How has stuttering affected your life?

How has stuttering affected your life? Ever since I was born, I’ve always had a stutter. People have always misunderstood me and only take me for granted because they think I am not a good talker or m...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & IsolationDating & Romance+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
0 points

I’m not sure why this is being downvoted but I relate. It’s soooo hard hearing a stammer sometimes, it literally makes me feel like I have no control of my throat/vocal cords whatsoever. Definitely a ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 19, 2024
4 points

Stutter when I think what I want to say but usually talks fluent

Stutter when I think what I want to say but usually talks fluent Hi there, hope everyone feeling well! I've been a stutterer myself from a young age but It was not severe but as I grow older it becam...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
3 points

I think for me it's when someone says "but your stutter is cute!" When I voice my struggle around it. I don't think it's wrong to think stuttering is cute or anything and I fully believe you can think...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
postr/StutterAug 19, 2024
5 points

I took an antidepressant and notice that I stutter less

I took an antidepressant and notice that I stutter less So I recently took an antidepressant and I noticed that I stutter less compared to without the medicine. Could it possibly be that my stutter is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
2 points

If you are able to decrease your anxiety, anxiety related blocking and avoidance behaviors will decrease. Decreasing anxiety is unlikely to address repetitions and prolongations....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
2 points

My stuttering is nearly all anxiety based. Working on that and practicing presentations and interviews helps immensely for me. I don’t stutter if I’ve had a drink, or talking to babies. I remember t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
7 points

I hate this one. Because, like, what possible answers are there here where you *don't* look like a dick for saying that?! Someone who forgets there name definitely has some kind of issue you shouldn...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
1 points

Thank you for your response! I will take that into consideration The thing is that the character stutter since his childhood ; I think that I mainly "make" him stutter when he's stressed to make the...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
5 points

As someone who really only stutters when under stress - I disagree. If I can manage my anxiety, my stutter is almost nonexistent....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
9 points

This is a huge one. I have some other icks, but this one takes the cake because every presentation they'll say that they're so afraid of stuttering on it. Boo hoo, maybe it's rude, but I don't feel ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
15 points

Or the equally annoying “ohh, cat got your tongue” 🙄 no bish, i have a stutter. I did get one woman at a store fired through corporate because she wouldn’t let me speak, made fun of me, then said I...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
82 points

"What? Did you forget your name? Hahaha..." What the hell do you actually think is happening? Like, what possible explanations are there for someone to pause while saying their name that *isn't* a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
2 points

It's very frustrating and annoying, I agree. Even to this day, I still get embarrassed every time I stutter, and I stutter frequently. I hate having to try and switch out words or use filler words lik...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2024
5 points

Yup I have never been even considered for promotion, or management in any job i have ever had. Even though I am extremely competent, and detailed. I know exactly why I can see it in their eyes, I'm al...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 18, 2024
42 points

Alien: Romulus and stuttering

Alien: Romulus and stuttering No spoilers! I'm not sure what I'm expecting from this post, but I feel I need to get out my thoughts somewhere. I just saw Alien: Romulus today and while I liked the m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2024
4 points

this right here, even if i didn’t stutter much the first time i’m an absolute mess the second time around...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment