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postr/StutterAug 22, 2024
13 points

I wanna be normal

I wanna be normal I kinda remind myself of Auggie from the movie Wonder. He does ordinary things, but he doesn’t look normal. Like me, instead I don’t sound normal. I’m so sick of it. Just wanna talk ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 22, 2024
5 points

Tomorrow I have final thesis presentation and its getting me anxious

Tomorrow I have final thesis presentation and its getting me anxious This is Live long stutterer of 24 year old, and I dont know how I survived till now being elder child and a cronic public speaking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterAug 22, 2024
19 points

Has anyone gotten a job recently despite stuttering in an interview?

Has anyone gotten a job recently despite stuttering in an interview? I had an interview today where I stuttered massively. The annoying thing about it is that I felt my answers were good and the inter...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2024
4 points

I, too, have months of fluency and months of anxiety-inducing stuttering. My mindset during tough months is usually self-destructing, and I'm trying to be kinder to myself and, most of all, to face th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
3 points

I'm with you, unlike the others. Stuttering is an unconsciously gained anxiety mechanism, deeply built into preverbal mechanisms. It's way more likely the brain changes itself after someone's personal...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
2 points

The simplest was I can describe stuttering is 1- neurological difference + anxiety/avoidance= stuttering. For some the neurological side is primarily the cause. There are young children who have n...

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Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
-10 points

I agree that there is an innate sensitiveness, however, the stutterer can speak fluently, he/she speaks very well alone for example, but when he speaks to other people he struggles. So what is about t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social JudgmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
1 points

when I am meeting new people or interviewing, I like to start the conversation by addressing my stutter almost immediately. (I know people with disabilities shouldn’t have to do this, but in my experi...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 21, 2024
22 points

A new experience.

A new experience. I recently got a job in the government sector, so there was an induction training program organized for new appointees. On the first day of our training, we were asked to introduce o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2024
0 points

When I stuttered in school I did hour long meditations to relax my whole body and mind - I stuttered less but it felt scary still....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
0 points

I was diagnosed with aspd. Idk what came first childhood trauma being the cause of stutter or stuttering being the cause of aspd . Well....I am now a nurse, and I really don't care what people think a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

I know this was 5 months ago so I'm late but oh well lol My stutter won't ever go, it's permanent. While no one else in my family stutters, mine is believed to be genetic. I started talking around 1...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsSeverity & FluctuationStigma & Bullying+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
4 points

If your in the uk I'm in the same situation and have a stutter also. I am scared about it and it can be a scary situation. But you have to realise that no one's going to judge you for your stutter. It...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
3 points

Yeah they don’t think it’s a big deal. So many people don’t understand saying “just speak slower” doesn’t really help. They might also think we’re too nervous and that’s why we stutter. But to fair,...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentRepetitions & ProlongationsHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

I think you're so doing the right thing. People who don't stutter like to give advice like _take your time_. Sometimes it helps but it's always unsolicited (and often patronizing). ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice OfferedAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

That's true if i focus on other areas, i might not think about it. I don't think about stammering always. But when i have a moment to speak, my brain goes crazy and i stutter Since your older can i ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

“Covert stuttering” is also a major issue, that may be a more realistic and interesting direction to go in for your character . It often merely presents to listeners as confusion, anxiety and awkwar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
2 points

yeah agreed, even I try to control my breath while speaking. but when im told to speak instantly, i tend to get nervous and start fumbling, and because of my fumbling I get more nervous and hence more...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
3 points

I really think it’s just our anxiety that’s why I try to take a deep breath before I say anything it helps sometimes...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2024
1 points

If you are someone who has come to depend on word substitition, a block is basically a mini-PTSD based panic attack when you come to a word you cannot substitute. So the inherent stress of the curren...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment