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postr/StutterAug 9, 2016
9 points

Mentioning you stutter before a date?

Mentioning you stutter before a date? Hey so I recently got tinder (don't judge me haha). I was wondering if you think I should say that I have a stutter somewhere in the bio? or should I maybe just ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2016
2 points

I'm a high school teacher with a moderate-to-severe stutter. The best advice I can give you is to get ahead of the game. You're swapping emails with the people you're going to meet? Give them a head...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2016
1 points

It will affect you as much as you let it - meaning if you stress over phone interviews, in person interviews, meetings, etc - then it will definitely bother you. However, I think you'll be pleasantly...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2016
1 points

I'm an intern as a software developer and my team is fairly small, but the whole company is extremely social. When I meet someone new (often every day), I usually block when I say my name, so I tell ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2016
2 points

Disclosure is a great idea. I think it is beneficial for both communicators as it will take some weight off your shoulders and inform the other person of why you sound the way you do, which might cle...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 3, 2016
20 points

Just a little victory story for the day...

Just a little victory story for the day... So I've been terrified to talk on the phone pretty much my entire life, unless it's with close family or something like that, as I'm sure many of you other s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
2 points

YES. I had someone say this to me. I replied, "No, I have a stutter." I typically don't respond with something like that but through therapy I've been able to work on being more up front about my stut...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
16 points

The "Why are you so silent all the time?" for me is frustrating . Or at least it was before , now I just disclose that I have a stutter but before I was really insecure about my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2016
1 points

Do it! I have two shirts I wear a lot because then I can educate people about stuttering. It's amazing how often people are curious and just want to know more. I got mine through stuttertime.com...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2016
1 points

You could say to people that you always stutter on your name before you actually say your name because then people will be more understanding most likely...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 18, 2016
9 points

Trying to work on my stutter

Trying to work on my stutter I've been working on my speech and I've been trying to speak with more "personality" rather than just a monotone voice. I've noticed I'm a lot more fluent doing this over...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 12, 2016
5 points

Why am I stuttering?

Why am I stuttering? Hi, recently (about a couple of years I think) I started to stutter only in a specific situation and although I tried a bunch of things, nothing has changed. The situation is whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 12, 2016
4 points

Thinking about wearing shirts that advertise my stutter

Thinking about wearing shirts that advertise my stutter "Advertise" is a bad word to use but I was thinking of wearing shirts that say things like "I may stutter but I'm not stupid" or "i stutter: dea...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2016
1 points

I quite understand what you are going through. Majority of the people who stutter have same issue. We can speak well with friends and family, but can't utter a word to others.This is mostly due to fea...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2016
3 points

One time I was giving a group presentation and during the planning process my group members were talking about how nervous they were. Then one guy says, "Imagine having to do this with a stutter. That...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersPersonal StoriesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2016
1 points

I can't really give that great of advice for making friends since I've had the same friends since I was younger, nor can I give advice about dating cause I suck at that. However what I can give you ad...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2016
1 points

LGBT stutterer here. I have a mild stutter, so it doesn't hinder me in too many daily situations. I suppose a way they can compare is being a covert stutterer to being in the closet amongst certain pe...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2016
2 points

I'm very sorry this happened to you. I hope you find a better job with an understanding manager. Something I just started doing this year (I'm 35 btw) is that I tell people that I stutter during the i...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAccess & RightsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
7 points

Thanks for sharing that. I've been stuttering a lot more these past few days and needed something like that to empower me. I shared it on my Facebook wall with the following: "As someone who's stutte...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2016
2 points

I currently have a wife and have had several girlfriends in the past. My stutter has never been an issue for any of them, however I have a mild stutter that I can hide if I choose my words right. If ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride+1 more