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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

Also why tf can’t we have 3 names that we can pick which one feels right in the moment. World, be more inclusive please...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

I work in a customer service role where I am greeting clients, touring them and assisting the sales team in the sale. As a stammer I know this is big and I’ve worked hard to get here. I think having a...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

In a world full of people who usually need to do more thinking before they speak, You however can are different, every word has meaning to it because every single word takes effort to get out. You may...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionValidation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

I’ve always been religious and the fact that you know that Gods in control of it is a good thing I stuttered for 20 years, and prayed everyday it’s what helped me, learning how the man upstairs uses s...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

Here's how stuttering "positively" impacts my life: \- With any neurological difference or personal struggle, it makes you more attuned to others' disabilities and differences, and you become more aw...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

That’s the deal with stuttering… We earn our fluency/good speech daily. Which is why there can never be a cure. So now that we got that out-of-the-way, you can still have the life that you want to ha...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

How would I approach another stutterer as a pretty mild stutterer?

How would I approach another stutterer as a pretty mild stutterer? How would you want to be approached by someone that is a stutterer but doesn’t stutter much at all compared to others, but can still ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

Thank you for sharing. Your name sounds familiar. How did you overcome stuttering? I feel like maybe one of the reasons a lot of us still stutter is because we think about it constantly and give it so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

I am sure I have lost jobs or promotions because of it. But I also never wanted to be a manager - I just want to work and not deal with the politics - so that definitely has something to do with it b...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

Im not religious any longer, but was raised in that family, slowly noticing how its brain washing, to belive that church is source of truth, that their version on what you should do, how you should ac...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

Forget about God, focus on working on yourself in ways you can achieve improvement. This line of questioning eventually made me hate the idea of religion all together, because its hard to overlook the...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

I’ve had a stutter my whole life, well I’m not that old yet like I’m still in school however I feel like I’ve had enough bad experiences to Atleast share one here. I’m not sure about you guys but unti...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

My stutter never had any truly positive impact. It gives shape to my personality more than I care to admit, which I think is the only good thing. I'm a good listener and I deeply appreciate romantic r...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

lol it may seem silly now, but it’s all about keeping a positive mindset and attitude! For me, having a stutter has made life harder, but has made achieving my goals and beating past obstacles much mo...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

No god gave you a stutter. The human body is EXTREMELY complex and not perfect as it develops. Some of our bodies developed in a way that causes our vocal communication to sound different. There is no...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

100% this. Your stutter simply does not need to dictate your mental health. Stuttering sucks but having a stutter and a mental health disorder is 5 million times worse....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

As an extremely arrogant and confident person who stutter, I don't believe there is a true link between them. It does make some difference to a degree but in general confidence and stuttering are two ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionOverthinking & MonitoringNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

yeah I was facing this issue to and what’s helping me rn, which won’t work for everyone, is recognizing my instincts(the fast witted thoughts/impulses/survival modes in the brain) and my consciousness...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

What helped me was having a speech therapist and personal therapist. You need to realize you are not your stutter. Separate you from your disability....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

I can relate to how you feel a lot. However, I think it is not always just the speech impediment that is a factor in this type of situation. There are many adults who stammer and have wives (or husban...

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