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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
2 points

opposite for me too. Super sensitive about everything and feel a lot of pain and anxiety over social situations, often dwelling on them for days afterwards because I could tell someone noticed my stut...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
3 points

I’m really sensitive so yeah it has made me less sensitive. I’ve kinda ran out of mental breakdowns so I’m just a bitter person. It works for me. Bitterness is my control. So if anyone gives me any sl...

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Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
5 points

Hey! I feel you. I cope by being bitter. But...it could be a lot worse. I’m glad it’s not worse, but I’m not going to sit there and act like this isn’t detrimental to my life you know? Nobody deserves...

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Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
16 points

Quite to opposite for me. I'm afraid to go to the market, barber etc, or order food, talk to a teacher etc. I dont show it and always seem like the fun guy who's always laughing at shit, even at the e...

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
5 points

I truly am sorry. I know and everybody here knows how horrible this shit is :( Stuttering has lost me job opportunities, internships, girlfriends, and any will to follow my passion of politics. I find...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
7 points

I agree with you but just sometimes i think much about some things that i have lost and the reason is known which is, and i just go to the bed with my teras....

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
1 points

Pretty much everything really. You become hesitant to raise ur hands and answer questions you know the answer to, you only speak mostly to ur close circle whom ur comfortable with, this sort of stuff ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
2 points

I have a very similar story. Started at 5 and now I'm 22 and I don't seem to be getting over it. I hope with all my heart to get over this before I'm 30 so I can have a normal adult life and put all t...

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Onset & Life-Stage ChangesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2020
31 points

I understand how you feel but it frankly isn’t a matter of deserving. There are people who are born blind and there are people who were tortured and eventually killed while serving and protecting our...

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Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
1 points

Not at all! Thanks for your input but I'm not here to whine because what I've been through or going through is so overwhelming and basically it's a rant and I've tried to control my stutter and it's t...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
1 points

That sounds so cool but my problem is as I had already mentioned in another comment is that the delivery person doesn't even check such notes as they could simply call instead of reading instructions ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
1 points

Thank you so much for the kind and encouraging words. Even though the UberEats and other similar apps have text the driver kinda thing, the drivers here don't read the messages and even I give special...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
2 points

I know just how you feel. I suffer from blocks too and I hate giving people directions. But it's important to remember that you are not useless. I know it's insanely difficult to speak to others somet...

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Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
2 points

Aww that's ok. Every word of every person commenting in here is helping me out, with their thoughts and concern and that does mean a lot to me. I totally agree every stutter is different and so is t...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
2 points

Sadly that's the problem for most of the non-stutterers (I don't call them normal people because we all are normal!): they don't understand how it effects us. When I have to make a phone call I always...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
2 points

That's really great! You're doing an amazing job at it I'm sure and yeah when I get asked some unexpected stuff my brain just doesn't register it and I don't even remember what they said or asked afte...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2020
8 points

What ever happens, you should never give up and ever feel ashamed or useless , we just have to fight and move on , don't let stutter affect the quality of your life...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterApr 14, 2020
38 points

Wish I could be normal

Wish I could be normal I just want to get this off my chest hence the rant. This lockdown is making life so difficult for me because almost everything needs to be ordered either over the phone or dir...

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Quality of LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
3 points

He will probably face some challenges but that’s ok! He can handle it. Have faith in him that he can make the best of it and it will be fine....

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Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
65 points

>I dont want my son to stutter. Guide me. This is honestly the entire issue of stutter. We don't want to stutter, but we are people who stutter. Wanting to not stutter as a person who stutters is ...

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