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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2017
-4 points

It's only a disability if you let it be one ... you all want help but you don't realize you are in control of your destiny not outside forces , truth hurts your feelings so dislike to agree 💪...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2017
1 points

I've had a great deal of friends through out my entire school life. One of the things I found is dressing better and playing sports. When I play soccer I almost do no talking and I just play to a very...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2017
1 points

Most people I've met in the improv community seem to be introverts overall. A lot of people go into an improv class to "get out of their shell" like you said. It helps conquer stage fright too. Improv...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Roles & PerformanceMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2017
1 points

Dang, I have never thought of that. Thanks, that's a great idea. Like it or not, I'm going to have to get out of my "shell" and this is a great idea. Everything is about mindset I suppose and this mig...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2017
1 points

This might scare the hell out of you, but consider taking an improv class if they are available in your area. I started doing improv several years ago and love it. When I get into a scene, I basically...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Roles & PerformanceMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2017
1 points

Exposure. Let yourself be burned. You've got to build up the scar tissue. The fire stops hurting after long enough in it. You've got a good attitude, so you're already making progress. Just don't shy...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2017
1 points

Confront the things that scare you & stress you out. Think about something that makes you uncomfortable. Something that stresses you out a little just thinking about it, like maybe calling someon...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2017
0 points

Stop seeing yourself as a stutter and anticipating that's your problem ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2017
1 points

I personally don't believe in speech therapy. I think fighting the stutter will only keep the fight going longer. That said, everyone's different and I encourage people to explore their options and se...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2017
1 points

There will be plenty of other opportunities. It helped me to change my perceptions of interviews. Previously I viewed them as a nerve wrecking, scary situation where I was convinced I would stutter ...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2017
1 points

In the spirit of motivational quotes or what have you, a book I enjoyed is Nassim Taleb's Antifragile. The concept is that instead of pushing the idea of weathering a storm or enduring a bad period,...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2017
2 points

It's not the stutter but a pretty normal battle with anxiety you're going through at your age. It seems like most early 20s people go through it, and I did too. You're figuring out who you are as an a...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2017
1 points

Your stuttering might stick around for life but it doesn't have to ruin it. The downward spiral is tough to break out of. I myself was at the bottom of one, but my latest strategy to reverse it was to...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2017
3 points

> From experience, when someone brings up my stuttering, it improves a lot but I don't know how things will work the other way around. I think you'll see it works similarly the other way around. ...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & EmpathyMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2017
2 points

> I don't know why I'm so passionately angry about it. I think I'd be passionately angry too. For me, not having my feeling understood, especially by those closest to me, is something I can barel...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerFamily Support & ConflictMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2017
1 points

Something stood out to me, reading your text: >I want so much to sit down with some pills or vodka and just BE NORMAL. If you break it down, there are 2 things that aren't "normal" there. One, wa...

Meds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2017
4 points

As a stutterer my whole life, I know these things can be tough. I'm 22 and been down a road of a self medicating myself. The reason that I stopped, and I hope this reaches out to you as well; I stop...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeeking TherapyMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2017
6 points

It's not easy, it really isn't. But please, please be conscientious of your emotions. Once you understand the interdependence between anxiety and stuttering and begin teaching yourself techniques and ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 1, 2017
18 points

I've almost eliminated it out of my life by not giving a fuck about what other people think about me.

I've almost eliminated it out of my life by not giving a fuck about what other people think about me. A lot of what this sub preaches is to stop caring what other people think about you, learning to a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2017
0 points

Your happiness is dependent on what kind of thoughts you have about yourself and your outlook on the world. Yes, you can simply decide to think differently and I can guarantee you'll be more happy. ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift