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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2020
1 points

hey buddy. i feel you. i just have one suggestion. have you tried working online. as a freelancer i mean ! the point is : don't stuck your life for just alittle thing like that. believe me, if you sto...

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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2020
1 points

Even If i talk with someone nothing not can help me they can't take it away from me, Just I'm tired with months staying in my room all days because of this shit, I'm seeing my friends of high school t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2020
2 points

Yeah i get the same thing, if i block on a word really bad i have no desire to even continue the sentence, it just shuts me down sometimes...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Helplessness & AgencyBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJul 29, 2020
34 points

You ever hit a block so hard that you just contemplate not talking any more?

You ever hit a block so hard that you just contemplate not talking any more? Yeah just happened to me whilst telling a joke. Solid minute or so block and it’s not like you can just stop saying what yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2020
2 points

Don’t agree. I have a stutter, I know how hard it can be, but I also have a wife, a son and family and friends that love me, as I’m sure you do. You think that killing yourself will take the pain away...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2020
3 points

I FEEL THIS! I got told once by my art high school art class teacher my work was a mix of 'the best' and 'the worst' in the class....And thats stuck with me because that's how I live my life. I try to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 26, 2020
10 points

I kinda figured out why I hate myself

I kinda figured out why I hate myself (Italian here, I apologize for the probable mistakes) I really don't know how to phrase this concept w/out coming out as an asshole, so I'll just say it: I think...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2020
1 points

>but now that I'm entering into the business life I want to eliminate my speech problem once and for all. This part stands out for me; I'd advise you to keep your expectative realistic, it's very...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
2 points

The main problem with stuttering is that it gets worse when you fight it. You have to learn to accept it and that it’s not about you as a person. Look at it like this: some people have good eyesight, ...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
1 points

Same, OP. There’s not quite enough understanding people, even those close to you. My parents are very much the same, but I would say don’t beat yourself up for it, you can do it. Find a career path yo...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
1 points

I dont ever hide my stutter. I just block before I even get to talk and no words come out or its just sounds. And yes the blame is on the condition I have. If i wouldnt have stuttered I wouldnt have g...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
2 points

Honestly, I can and can't imagine how you feel. We all take it in a different way.. but one thing is for sure- it hurts and you don't deserve to hear that. That's not true. I have series of traumas ma...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
25 points

She has the finesse of a cannon ball, but she, unfortunatelly, got a point. Life is hard and you'll do better if you grow a thick skin about/accept your stutter. The hermit thing will only make it wo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 24, 2020
56 points

“You really wanna get a job but you can’t even order your own food”

“You really wanna get a job but you can’t even order your own food” Today my mom said “you really wanna get a job but you can’t even order your own food” and I thought damn. How encouraging :) Just r...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2020
2 points

Bottom line, if you've been medically diagnosed with anxiety and chronic depression, your mom's gotta give you a break. There's a general rule for those with medical problems: **never use it as an ex...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2020
2 points

Ikr. My psychiatrist told me that there's no medication or anything that helps stuttering. That just makes me feel hopeless....

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2020
2 points

I feel u :( I am in a job hunting for almost a year know and it is killing me! Constant nervousness, I kinda hope I would not get an interview just because I dont wanna have to go there and talk and s...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 22, 2020
11 points

Stuttering is the worse illness to have

Stuttering is the worse illness to have Imagine being in a social interaction and everyone else can speak normally. but when it's your turn to speak you get stuck on a sentence and everyone in the gro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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postr/StutterJul 22, 2020
23 points

I just feel stuck.

I just feel stuck. I’ve been working in this retail job for a year. The company itself is horrible however I like the people I work with in my small store. When I first got the job, I told myself it...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2020
2 points

I know it will be. I would have so much job opportunities because I would gain a lot more experiences, I would have bigger social circle, I would be totally different person in public. Now I have to p...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerQuality of Life