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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2018
2 points

Thank you and obviously you as well. It’s strange how it ebbs and flows. I know it’ll pass and I’ll stop being so dramatic. :)...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Severity & FluctuationMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2018
2 points

You know, I tend to not use the word "confidence". It doesn't quite sound like what I experience. I think I like the word "familiarity" instead. Like, we know sort of what to expect, which means we do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2018
2 points

I have quite the vivid memories from years ago of me stuttering publicly with people reacting weird about it, so I'm not the person to ask for help in this case. What I can say is that, you're not a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2018
6 points

Long time lurker, but I rarely post. I felt like this should be one of the few times though... Confidence is everything. I went to a college where they focused on group work, presentations, and paper...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2018
7 points

That’s the way I felt at your age. Sort of the way I feel now. I’m 50. I like the way you expressed the desperation but also the sprinkling of LOLs like “Wtf why me it’s so bassackwards retarded it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2018
2 points

IMO therapies that focus on stuttering comfortably and without fear or tension. Same natural disfluencies, different behavioral response....

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftPositive Therapy Techniques
postr/StutterMar 19, 2018
4 points

Getting over a tough day/situation?

Getting over a tough day/situation? Usually I’m feeling good and fairly confident , even with minor slip ups , but some days I can get pretty negative in a slump, what kind of stuff do you guys do to ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2018
19 points

I’ve commented here before on someone asking a similar question. I can tell you that I suffered the most in college. People don’t understand it and you’re constantly either having to socialize and spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
2 points

Great post. You have given some simple practical advices. What you said in the beginning, about other people reactions, is plain truth. Maybe it's hard and scary to understand, but the fact is that ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterMar 9, 2018
4 points

Accept yourself and stop focusing on other people's reactions

Accept yourself and stop focusing on other people's reactions Stutterers are always focusing way too much on how other people will react, how others feel. Why? Why do you let other people's reactions ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2018
6 points

They don't but in their ignorance they're also right. They don't understand how all-consuming the problem can be for stutterers, because from their perspective and in the grand scheme of things, it'...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
1 points

I've probably read close to a dozen books about stuttering from cover to back and some times they helped mask my stutter, but nothing felt natural. I became fluent only after I tripped over the root o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
3 points

The benefit of speech therapy isn't really better speech, but more so how you feel about your own speech. At least that was the case for me. ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Therapy ExperiencesMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
2 points

Sounds like speech therapy would do alot out good for you. It has helped my change my mind set towards my speech to a more positive time....

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Therapy ExperiencesMindset shift
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2018
34 points

Hey guys. I just performed infront of 900+ people on friday. I can finally say I did it. (With long ass story)

Hey guys. I just performed infront of 900+ people on friday. I can finally say I did it. (With long ass story) (Link to video below) I conquered my biggest fear and shit on its grave. It’s my last yea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
0 points

And you are assuming that it is not debilitating for me. Don't assume things like that either. I'm not going to sugar coat things. Life is tough, the world is tough. You either grow to meet it, or y...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
5 points

Agreed. But I don't think it's the sub's job to force people into a comfort level that they may not be ready for. I can appreciate that approach but it has kind of an off-putting sink or swim strateg...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
1 points

Good, hit that breaking point and just accept that it's a lifetime thing. It's much easier when you just go with it instead of fighting it. And I don't mean only your life is easier that way, which it...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
postr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
5 points

Giving advice to others

Giving advice to others After reading through a couple of threads on page, I feel like I should do this: So you stutter, you feel like your world is crumbling, you’ve got no one to lean on, or take ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Advice OfferedMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
1 points

Awesome story! I had a similar revelation when I was 18 as well and my stuttering almost disappeared afterwards (maybe because I wasn't as anxious anymore). Recently it's been coming back (I'm 24) and...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride