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postr/StutterSep 8, 2021
21 points

😔 My stutter

😔 My stutter I’m just so angry and down because of my hat happened today. In a new school and we were introducing ourselves and of course I can say what I like doing, what I’m studying and more but c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2021
1 points

Happened to me in chemistry, my name is Arabic and begins with "K" so it's hard to say it. Teacher asked for my name (I'm a twin and we're both in the same class) and I couldn't say it so I straight u...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2021
1 points

She looks me in the eyes and tells me she loves. That there’s nothing wrong with me. That I’m a beautiful person. But scorns me for being socially inadequate. For being dumb about not knowing things. ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2021
3 points

I always wondered about this too. I just had a virtual interview and was fluent for the first 15 minutes but the last half was bad. Hard blocking and feel like I’m choking on air. Went from feeling co...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 2, 2021
19 points

I want to accept stutter as a part of me

I want to accept stutter as a part of me Hi, please do read if you have time. <3 I've been stuttering since I was a kid. It held me back a lot of times. When I know the answer on my teacher's que...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2021
1 points

oh i’ve tried this after hearing variants of it for my whole life, it just doesn’t do anything to make me feel any better! i don’t get how it Works, but also i have a personality disorder so that migh...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2021
2 points

Thank you! Yeah I used to be terrible and so shy. I’ve gotten better tho even tho I do get embarrassed still. It’s slowly getting better tho...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
1 points

Thank you!! My parents are not that supportive, they think if I tell everyone that I stutter they gonna think I am mentally disabled and no one’s gonna take me seriously because they will think I am s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 30, 2021
46 points

Introductions

Introductions Today was my first day of school and we had to introduce ourselves as always. The teacher got to me and I said my first name with a subtle block but I was still relieved that it wasn't t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2021
2 points

I've come to realize attempts to completely eradicate it are too forceful and short-lasting. You may reach a new high, but you also get a new low. If you were to accept it, chances are you would stil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterAug 28, 2021
6 points

Advice about portraying someone with a stutter in a tabletop RPG home game

Advice about portraying someone with a stutter in a tabletop RPG home game Someone in my D&D game is creating a character who is extremely high powered but stays out of the spotlight, using an emp...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
1 points

John Harrison has written about this many years ago. If you haven’t read it I think you’d enjoy it as articulates some of what you’re getting at here https://www.stuttering-specialist.com/post/underst...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
2 points

I told someone, a 'friend', and because he didn't notice he flat out said I shouldn't tell anyone because it's 'not that bad' and disrespectful to people with 'real speech problems.'...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterAug 26, 2021
11 points

Stuttering during presentation @ work

Stuttering during presentation @ work Today, I stuttered during a presentation at work over Zoom. I felt rushed because my presentation was at the end of an already long meeting and we were overtime. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
2 points

I completely understand you, my dude. People need to stop saying "it's gonna be okay" because it's never going to be okay. I am 17 and I am crying like 2-3 times a day. When I see my friends cracking ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
3 points

Rereading my post, I can totally see how it came across as "stuttering isn't all that bad. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get your shit together!" and that's totally not how I meant it. If yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterAug 26, 2021
12 points

Masks and stuttering

Masks and stuttering Has anyone found the whole Covid situation and wearing masks with a stutter really difficult. I have had a stutter since I was 7, now 40 and despite being really supportive of wea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
3 points

One thing stuttering has done to me is humble me. The pain got too much one day and I cut all connections with everyone I had met except one friend I respected because I wanted to leave behind my past...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
2 points

I feel you 100%. Sometimes when I talk to someone, I'm trying to say something important but then I do a big pause because I know Im gonna stutter and the person thinks im done talking and just moves ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
3 points

I am 39 years old, 40 in couple weeks and I’ve struggled with stuttering since I was 9. The thing I have a hard time doing is letting go. I can’t just be ok with it. It’s like I know the answer and ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+1 more