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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2022
11 points

I tell people almost the exact same thing. My stutter only got better once I started meds and quit giving a fuck about what other people thought about it. I wake up everyday and still can’t believe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2022
1 points

I usually stutter with the letter “I”. It would be so difficult to get it out that I would open my mouth to speak then nothing would come out, cause I didn’t want to embarrass myself by stuttering. Th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2022
1 points

I’m not a cashier specifically, but I learned how to use them last year because I felt a little bad when they would call for help and there was no one else to run up. I can say practiced phrases like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2022
34 points

This is the absolute foundation of overcoming stuttering. 👇👇⁣ ⁣ Without this I wouldn't be speaking freely and effortlessly for the last 3 years. 👇⁣ ⁣ 💧 Learning to not resist your stutter. ⁣ ⁣ We...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2022
6 points

This sort of question actually illustrates just how impactful stuttering can be to one's psyche and mental health. The massive desperation that some people who stutter feel. And if this subreddit is a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2022
8 points

What you’re doing is incredibly brave and so important. As Stutters we tend to live our lives in the shadows. We’re afraid tho have that conversation or ask that person out. Shame, embarrassment, se...

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Hiding & ConcealmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2022
1 points

That's what happened to me years ago when I started university. I started to miss lectures, avoid social contact etc. Eventually I surrendered and left university and started telematic studies in othe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2022
2 points

My old account got banned for some reason. You work for kohl’s as a cashier too? “Kohl’s” And “card” are both harsh words but sometimes I just stutter leading up before I say it and then don’t stutter...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterMar 31, 2022
24 points

Challenging yourself

Challenging yourself I (30M) stutter. I have since I was 5 years old. I've never been okay with it. It's always been hard, frustrating. I've felt left out, incompetent, like life isn't worth living, ...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2022
2 points

I practice everything beforehand to get the muscle memory down. I also record VO as a part of my job. When I was in speech therapy as a kid, I would read into a microphone & listen to it back with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2022
2 points

Yeah, this is the reason why I avoid talking as much as I can while in public, I'm way too scared of being mocked ☹️ just recently when I was shopping my dad called me and asked me if he should pick m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2022
1 points

I’m a young adult, stuttered all my life. It was worst when I was a little kid, but a few years of speech therapy helped out a lot. Now I can go periods of time that are essentially stutter-free, othe...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2022
1 points

My miracle was finding out and then obtaining the Edinburgh Masker. This is a wonderful speech prosthetic that enables most of us who stutter to speak fluently. It is wonderful. It changed my life....

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Assistive DevicesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2022
1 points

I’ve known 3 mature SLP’s socially and zero of them knew I suffered from a sometimes debilitating covert stutter. I’m willing to bet that most lay people have no idea that your repetitions or seconda...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 27, 2022
4 points

Lying and Dishonesty

Lying and Dishonesty I never wanted to lie but if the choice was to hide the stutter then I'd lie all day, regardless of the trouble it got me in. Looking back I became a skillful liar which led to d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2022
1 points

Nice, if I can relate to this, i started with 21-22y , so it took me 4 years, but now I can say that I am 97% free of stuttering, it happens sometimes, but its more like i pause for 0.5s in order to s...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
2 points

"Why should I plan my words? I know what I want to say I just talk and the words come." Exactly, we are focusing so much on 'how we speak' and predicting stuttering, that we have little processing pow...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
2 points

"Fluent" speakers also have many disfluencies in their speech but they can still convey their message & they don't care even if they struggle with some words. They usually also don't plan the...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
4 points

I'm 59, been stuttering all my life to, and been totally embarrassed by it . I've spent a lifetime hiding from it, not been able to be the person I know I really could of been, been stuck in dead ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
2 points

I stopped having crushes on women and that helped me because in my mind she just a normal woman and I just talk to them like any other person it was all in my mind for me....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career