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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2022
23 points

Please report your professor to the university. This is grounds for a complaint. As a university professor he should know better....

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2022
29 points

You should take this up with someone higher than your professor. No one should be treated like that, especially for something that you can't control. I would think your grade should be at least 50% ba...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAccess & Rights
postr/StutterSep 22, 2022
57 points

learning to live with a stutter

learning to live with a stutter I've stuttered since I was born, when my mom was pregnant for me my dad beat her and her stomach which punctured my lung and had me sit in the hospital for 8 weeks afte...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 18, 2022
10 points

Peeved Cashier

Peeved Cashier Yesterday I went out to go pick up some groceries. My stutter doesn’t usually cause me problems while shopping, especially grocery shopping. But apparently it did at the cash register y...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2022
4 points

really rough. this makes me really sad. such inhumane behavior and I would for sure be reporting this to someone....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2022
58 points

Extremely rude of the interviewer. You could contact their HR department and lodge a complaint against them. I'm sorry that happened to you. I mention I stutter before interviews too and have never ha...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2022
1 points

I agree It's very toxic to tell someone to be positive on all conidtions when you don't even live in their shoes. Maybe you live in country that have laws against discrimination when you are trying ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterSep 13, 2022
5 points

How do you avoid uncomfortable interactions?

How do you avoid uncomfortable interactions? Hey everyone, I've been thinking about something and it's been weighing on me. My stutter has been great this past year to the point where most of my cowor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
2 points

Wow that is such a horrible reason to reject a candidate. Especially in tech. Why would it matter if a software engineer sounded weird or nervous when they talked? They're there to write code, not tal...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
4 points

I work for a tech company and am in a management position where I interview and hire people. We do interviews in rounds and then meet as a group to discuss the candidates. Over the years there have be...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
3 points

Completely depends on industry and role. I have a stammer and worked as a lecturer for 5 years before starting my own video production business. Yes I stammered but the role increased my confidence. I...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2022
14 points

>Do You Think People Just Stop Considering You For A Job When They Hear You Stutter? Yes. No doubt about it. I worked for a company for over 10 years. Became pretty good friends with the CFO. He c...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
2 points

Worst moments in my life regarding the stutter weirdly aren't huge moments but sort of a myriad of minor incidents and people's reaction to them. trying to ask for a bus ticket, trying to order food, ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life+2 more
postr/StutterSep 8, 2022
11 points

Fuck ignorant people who get one stoopid idea and think it will solve everything.

Fuck ignorant people who get one stoopid idea and think it will solve everything. I remember one night my brother made me learn some Eminem rap then forced me to rap it again and again. The man didn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice OfferedStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
7 points

Technically, he is not wrong. Atheists can say whatever they want about religion but can't say anything about god's existence because there is no concrete scientific proof. Top scientists in the world...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
5 points

My brothers stutter is more severe than mine but we have discussed stuttering so much so I feel as if I could answer these questions easily for him. Dating with his severe stutter had never been an is...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
3 points

Ignore them. Bullies thrive on getting a reaction out of someone. There’s a subreddit that’s dedicated to bullying disabled men and even provoking them to commit suicide. The sub tends to be the most ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

I know how you feel. I grew up with an abusive father. Every time I stuttered I'd get yelled at, and be called a stupid bastard etc... you can imagine how that affected my confidence over many years...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
1 points

i know how you feel. as a kid, every time id stutter in front of my dad he’d yell “r-r-reeemix”. hated it but i honestly found humor in it like decade later but still know it was messed up of him to s...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
3 points

I am so sorry this happened to you! When you calm down enough to feel Like you can approach this you should most definitely confront him and tell him how it hurt you. This should never happen but I ho...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying