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commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
3 points

It was uncomfortable when teachers (and classmates) thought a stutter meant I was incapable of talking. I blame it on the lack of awareness people have with stutters....

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2022
2 points

stuttering has nothing to do with loving yourself it’s just a little hiccup in life, if anything it’s a blessing I don’t care that I have a stutter and most people around me don’t care either but it’...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2022
-1 points

I hope you are making a joke (albeit it is a bad one). Comparing the responses to a religious prayer (which is somewhat refuted large parts of the world) and a persons disability is super ignorant. No...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2022
1 points

Folks KNOW we stutter yet they would like to have a conversation with us anyway!! Are they dumb or something!!! Folks should never speak to a stutterer if they know the stutterer will have a horrible...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Listener ReactionsStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2022
2 points

My experience might be different but I've met a lot of stutterers and they're mostly assholes (hopefully thats not the case with everyone). I have a v bad stutter like saying 1 word in 10 seconds and ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2022
3 points

The fact you fought and beat the punches and mocks means you were tougher than all those other teasers and punchers!!! You are more of a man than they were!! I have never been in military or army bu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2022
11 points

Did three years in the infantry with a covert stutter. It was hard. I was punched and mocked many, many times for disfluency. Radios were anxiety producing. Had to fight five times as hard for every o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterNov 24, 2022
40 points

An Open Letter To Everyone Who Laughs When I Stutter

An Open Letter To Everyone Who Laughs When I Stutter To Everyone Who Laughs When I Stutter, Do you know what differentiates humans from other animals? It is our ability to understand complex langua...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 23, 2022
14 points

Pent-up, unresolved anger

Pent-up, unresolved anger I like to think that I have come far in my journey with stammering/stuttering - I push myself, I have a wide social circle, I finally was able to secure a graduate job in my ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
postr/StutterNov 23, 2022
23 points

The thing that bothers me the most about stuttering

The thing that bothers me the most about stuttering I hate it when people say something like "relax" or "breathe" when I stutter. I know they aren't trying to be insulting but I can't help but feel th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
8 points

Do it if you really want to. Just try to prepare yourself mentally for the abusive comments that are bound to pop up....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2022
1 points

That isn't the intended use, I thought it might be a regional thing and I've umjust googled it, not a single entry lists the meaning as you described, they all confirm what I said. I agree with your ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
2 points

i find this so interesting and I feel pws (people who stutter) needs to be a bigger conversation in media. i see this comment all the time on specifically tiktok. people sometimes respond “you sh...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Public Awareness / MediaStigma & BullyingMedicalization / Neurodiversity+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
1 points

Just because you haven't seen the phrase used in its intended use or that it doesn't bother you, doesn't mean it doesn't happen to others or doesn't bother anyone else. Even if it's not massively so, ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
2 points

Yes! Also said that stuttering is a recognised disability, and that they're being ableist but they still stood their ground. I was then like listen, don't take this as me 'telling you off' or having...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
3 points

I think calling them out and using guilt is a good idea. Yours is bound to make them uncomfortable! Here are a few more ideas: "Well, that's an ableist thing to say." "Are you saying a disabled per...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
0 points

I've never seen anyone use "did I stutter" to mean "what I just said was good", to the point where I believe you've just misunderstood what was ultimately meant by the phrase. Although I agree it's u...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
14 points

It's especially annoying because mocking other disabilities is forbidden. Stuttering is one of the few disabilities thats ok to mock. I not a democrat but seeing Joe Biden get mocked for his stutter i...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
2 points

I also hate that phrase. I don’t care what people mean by it cuz it paints stuttering in a negative light....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
1 points

This phrase makes my blood boil. But then I try to calm myself and realize it’s further proof that there are different types of stutter, and that most people are completely uninformed about what a “...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingMedicalization / NeurodiversityDisclosure & Telling Others