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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
3 points

It really depends, everyone has their own experiences and confronts to their stutter in very different ways. I personally accept it as a part of myself but i want to handle it as well. But in any case...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
4 points

I suppose we could mention something like Stockholm Syndrome... - The way I look at it (personally) is that I want to say what I wanted to say, and this sometimes means facing a stutter head on. In ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
12 points

I spent so much time hating it when I was younger. Now it is just a part of me and who I am, like my freckles are. I know little tricks I can do to make my stutter go away, but they require so much...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
17 points

This is a tough one and opinions differ, so this is my personal view. I won't say I embrace it or even prefer to speak with a stutter. For a long time I saw it as an alien element and wanted to wash ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 2, 2020
34 points

Does anyone feel that stuttering is apart of their identity and prefers to not use techniques they have learnt to speak more fluency?

Does anyone feel that stuttering is apart of their identity and prefers to not use techniques they have learnt to speak more fluency? My partner has a stutter. They have gone to years of speech therap...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterApr 28, 2020
3 points

Imposter Syndrome and Stuttering

Imposter Syndrome and Stuttering Hi guys- this is my first post on this forum so apologies if I break any rules. I guess like the title says my stammer makes me feel like an impostor. I've just fini...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2020
3 points

I think it takes a lot of cognitive restructuring to reduce your anxiety around the stuttering. Instead of “oh no!”, you eventually switch to “that would suck if it happened”, to “if it happens it hap...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2020
1 points

I know I'm a little late, but as a person who stutters, I have a lot of feelings about Bill Denbrough from It. He was actually the first fictional character I had ever encountered who's stutter wasn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2020
3 points

Love can be expressed in more ways than speech. There's many love languages. And why does fluency even matter when dealing with people who love us and we trust?...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2020
1 points

Oh yeah I see what your saying but after making fun of each other, you can’t “lose” because of your stutter if that makes sense....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2020
3 points

It usually depends on the situation, joke and the person saying it. People around me learned that a “safe zone” for a joke is right after I make fun of it. You can always tell if someone’s just being ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2020
9 points

I feel you. Just yesterday I was thinking about the first time I got to talk in front of the whole class on my first year in high school, like, 15 years ago. I remember I couldn’t speak one single wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2020
1 points

I read the study and it states that your stutter may come back if triggered and they give 2 examples of how a trigger can bring it back. My perspective is that everything, for me, is a trigger, becau...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2020
3 points

WAY less fluent lol. I went from like a 4 to like an 8 lol... I need to be constantly talking to people and exposing myself to stuttering otherwise it becomes so much worse......

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2020
1 points

I started reading the book by John Harrison and another by Ruth Mead on stuttering. The idea that was really poignant in their books was the important of our thoughts and beliefs. I think this is de...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
3 points

The relationship was great we were together for 7yrs she made me a better person I remember when we started dating I used to feel so confident around her but as time went on my stutter even became wor...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
18 points

I had to stop trying to mask it. The techniques I was using sounded worse than the stutter. I'm almost 40 and have been stuttering my whole life. I have a family with kids. My daughters have slight sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
6 points

I'm the opposite, i let them tease me about it, its a flaw in me and its not like everyone else doesnt have flaws, i've accepted that im going to stutter for the rest of my life, if they're the jokey ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
1 points

Eh it doesn't really matter to me. I'm pretty introverted anyways. And the only drug I do anymore is weed and I almost only smoke by myself anyways. And my speech doesn't get reeaally bad unless I get...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
3 points

Yeah!!!! Dude for me it's all about the stress of stressing that you will. I'm going to do what you're doing more. Especially during this quarantine, not speaking to anyone. You kinda forget your flow...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking