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postr/StutterApr 23, 2022
19 points

I noticed that I stutter like mad around my family and friends I’ve known for longer.

I noticed that I stutter like mad around my family and friends I’ve known for longer. I started stuttering roughly when I was 17, and it’s gotten worse over the few years. I was always a fast talker a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 23, 2022
10 points

How are you doing on family gatherings? I'm just mute and response with few words or yes/no if I am being asked. It's really detrimental for my self image. I'm a grown man. It's really embarrassing interrupting them with my blocks. That sudden silence. Their faces also. Pain.

How are you doing on family gatherings? I'm just mute and response with few words or yes/no if I am being asked. It's really detrimental for my self image. I'm a grown man. It's really embarrassing in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2022
1 points

Hey friend, I don't know what it was about my post the triggered you, but I encourage you to read it again. I never imply not to have empathy. My point was one of perspective. I do believe people th...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2022
1 points

Sorry, I missed this! If it’s helpful, I think it is helpful to allow yourself to be bothered, but for the right reason. It’s natural to be frustrated - embrace it! However, I would let the frustratio...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2022
3 points

I find the opposite of this! When I have a good joke or comment that I wanna say so badly cuz it's really funny or clever and I want a reaction, I get so much anxiety knowing that I'll probably say "...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2022
7 points

Hi(F-17) and I understand your anxiety too. I always get so scared speaking to new people. Something that kinda helps me is that whenever I stutter/block, I laugh it off casually and then keep going i...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2022
2 points

Yep , me EVERY day! You would of thought after all my years stuttering I'd be ok with it, but I still get soooo embarrassed by it,...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 20, 2022
4 points

Please help

Please help My stutter is becoming so bad. I stuttered back when i was in 3rd grade but i cured it and now i’m 15 and it’s been back for a few years. It’s getting si bad to the point where i can’t tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2022
10 points

Your father is a moron. There is nothing else to it. Never be embarassed for stuttering....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 20, 2022
14 points

feeling hurt after my dad indirectly talks about my stutter

feeling hurt after my dad indirectly talks about my stutter ive written here so many times idk if yall will be tired of me but i just need to rant. so on my way back from school, i was sharing with my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
3 points

Fuck. I dread watching movies with people when there's someone in it that stutters. I always cringe at what their reaction is going to be. Most people that know me won't react but if it's someone new ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
2 points

lol i find my self stuttering in my head sometimes and i wanna actually punch myself...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
4 points

In high school I wouldve taken a pity smile any day instead of getting bullied & fighting countless times. All I got was injuries, suspentions & a sub par education because of it. Be glad peop...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
9 points

I think pity's smiles are more empathetic than you might think. Yes it sucks to be reminded that we have a handicap, but it is something to be sorry for....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 19, 2022
24 points

How do you feel about getting the pity smile?

How do you feel about getting the pity smile? I'm currently in high school. Whenever I talk in my really soft tone and stutter when asking a complex question, I always get the sympathy smile. I can ju...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
3 points

Thank you for your kind words. I could literally hug you if that was possible (sending virtual hug 🤗) I know analysing won't get me anywhere but I dread the next time an incident similar would arise...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 19, 2022
5 points

vent

vent Today i had to do a "speaking" for a paragraph in English class. so i started speaking and i didn't stutter at all. but something happened in class which made the teacher not focus and listen to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
6 points

I always analyse my stuttering episodes and put myself down by having the incident on repeat in my head and feeling the shame of it all. It really is difficult to block those thoughts out. I wish it w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
3 points

Had a similar experience. Once I had a substitute teacher and he wanted to know everybody’s names. When it was my turn to introduce myself in class I blocked and just could’t say my name, so my friend...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
11 points

>I just keep thinking that they all think I’m some loser or some idiot, when I’m not and I just have a stutter. No one around you is having those thoughts. Just you. We've all felt it. As a stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment