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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
2 points

Absolutely. I don't believe that I have found a definite cycle to my stutter, but it definitely comes in waves. I do know that the regression comes much swifter than the progression. I first noticed t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightCycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2021
4 points

Your sub-conscious is not letting you be relaxed in those situations. It has learnt over many-many years of avoidance behavior that the situation is not 'safe'. The reason it is so difficult to overco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
3 points

Same problem I have too . I feels like I’m very far away from friends , relatives due to my stammering stuttering problem . How can I control my friend ? Have any Idea ? I’m tired of my life...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 21, 2021
34 points

I’m so cripplingly lonely and frustrated

I’m so cripplingly lonely and frustrated I’m well over a month into university, and it seems like everyone has already made strong friendships. While I did do well in the first week of university, I’v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
2 points

I have this same worry and would never want anyone, especially my own child to deal with this. However, I think we also limit our perspective and understanding into focalizing on solely our stutter an...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterOct 21, 2021
8 points

I cant start conversations or continue conversations because im scared i’ll stutter

I cant start conversations or continue conversations because im scared i’ll stutter Whenever im talking to somebody or going up to someone to speak with them, i find it so difficult to get the confide...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2021
1 points

yeah i hear you. the irrelevancy of explaining vs the reward of doing so - a tale as old as time. break free, king 🤘🏼...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2021
2 points

I wish we did :-( ive never been able to get help and I can barely say my name how am I suppose to get a good paying job??? Just getting by...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 18, 2021
6 points

Can I get some kind of income help because of my stutter?

Can I get some kind of income help because of my stutter? Hey, my names Bri! I'm 28 and never have had any kind of government help besides foodstamps for a few months. I've had jobs in the past but th...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2021
1 points

Dude, I know your suffering, but you should call the company to make sure they are working in your case and talk about all it is needed. Stuttering is not as important as your parents' home being dest...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
2 points

That's just loneliness. I was there for a loong time. I used my stutter as an excuse to think I'll be alone forever. You won't be. You will meet someone, until then keep texting....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
1 points

I wish you had actually been a good girlfriend rather than going around fucking multiple guys behind my back and then lying about it while telling me you love me and that I’m the only guy for you. I’m...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 14, 2021
6 points

Stutterer since birth here. I can’t get past letter s lately. A sort of memoir

Stutterer since birth here. I can’t get past letter s lately. A sort of memoir These days, I can’t even tell people I have a stutter. When I try, I go ssssss…sssss…. I can’t make the jump to the next ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesRepetitions & ProlongationsHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterOct 13, 2021
5 points

Does anyone work in sales or want to work in commission based jobs?

Does anyone work in sales or want to work in commission based jobs? I want to focus on building wealth and I don’t see a 9-5 working out financially. I think sales based jobs are great but it’s so ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
2 points

I know this feeling and I completely understand. Don't think to much about OP and just know it's not your fault....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
2 points

Yeah but srsly I'm still feeling eased by their conservative claims that stutter can be mitigated but curing is very difficult(which means stutter is likely to relapse),not just accept my stutter unco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
7 points

I don’t know if you want my take on SLP but here I go: SLPs learn you tricks to control it or to speak more fluently. The question here is do we have a speaking problem or is it mentally and in our he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 9, 2021
11 points

Stuttering makes your life difficult. All I can do is accept and live on?

Stuttering makes your life difficult. All I can do is accept and live on? I started to notice my stutter in high-school. It seemed to got worse during & after my major depressive episode. It is a ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

I may definitely have some suggestions. Where do you feel the most stuck in your journey? Mentally? Anxiety? Low self esteem? Etc...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2021
23 points

Yep, and the later in life I get, the more I wonder, would I have the family i have now, my sons, , grandkids etc, prob not, I know my career would of definitely took a different and much bette...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency