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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
5 points

We're kinda in the same position. Im looking for jobs to pay my tuition and got refused a couple times. For me, having such a rich inner world, goals and ideas, and can't even express myself a lot of ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 17, 2021
22 points

Stutter engineer

Stutter engineer Hello guy's, I'm a stutter and i have been stuttering for 15 years, fear of stuttering is always haunting me , i cant focus on any thing, during college it was like a tragedy to me, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
2 points

It’s a very intensive program that is only taught at their facility in Virginia. It consists of learning the mechanics of speech consciously. You speak agonizingly slow at first and gradually speed it...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2021
3 points

For me… the grass may look greener on the other side. It almost certainly never is. The experience is not worth the hurt from other people. The world is a cruel, vicious place. It will chew you up a...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 16, 2021
11 points

Are there any teachers/tutors here who stutter? How did you get into the teaching profession?

Are there any teachers/tutors here who stutter? How did you get into the teaching profession? I was looking for a part time job and I had applied for part time teaching/tutoring. I recently got a call...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 15, 2021
4 points

I‘ve been fighting for a long time, but can‘t take it anymore.

I‘ve been fighting for a long time, but can‘t take it anymore. I‘m 27 years old and I have been stuttering since my „hello-world“. As I grew up, it affected my self-esteem and made me become an antis...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2021
1 points

I feel the same way. It really kills me because I think it’s really easy to talk to people and form friendships. but I stutter so I stay quiet. I hope it goes well for you though! Rooting for you....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2021
1 points

I have have stuttered all my life, I have two grown up sons, thankfully they have never stuttered.. I so glad they, unlike me, have not been held back in life through the curse of a stammer .....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2021
3 points

I don't think you quite understand how Stuttering works, i and many people have tried all of the things you mentioned and still have stuttering, it's very complex and not as easy as you mention to get...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2021
1 points

So cognitive therapies and cosmetic surgeries can redeem you out of being sub human in flirting with other girls and I got you mate. I'm not ugly but I'm very short, and my life can be said 'over'....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
postr/StutterNov 4, 2021
6 points

Can someone help me I can figure what is wrong with me I have tried many pattern to make sure that my stutter is minimize still it is getting worst each day, can someone help me I'm very insecure about my stutter

Can someone help me I can figure what is wrong with me I have tried many pattern to make sure that my stutter is minimize still it is getting worst each day, can someone help me I'm very insecure abou...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 4, 2021
12 points

feeling isolated

feeling isolated I feel like I have NO ONE irl that can understand how I feel, I feel so isolated and alone every day just feels like a new stressful hurdle and I constantly get mocked for a speech im...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2021
2 points

I’m in a glass box and everyone I’ve ever known and everyone I’ll ever come in contact with is surrounding the glass box. I can see and *hear* what everyone is saying. I see them all mingling with e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterOct 29, 2021
7 points

Struggling with stutter,addiction,friendships

Struggling with stutter,addiction,friendships I don't know how to start. My stuttering was pretty manageable a few years ago,I could fit in as a fluent speaker who never had a stuttering problem and I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
3 points

>Whenever i tried to understand what happens during stuttering it feels like i lost my consciousness Of speaking and my chain of thoughts and i just feel lost, and i feel like alien like i doesn't ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
16 points

I've come to understand stuttering not as a speech problem, but as a communication problem. There's nothing wrong with us physically, we don't stutter when we speak alone, so this is a problem with h...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
6 points

True that. I have realised over time stuttering has literally affected communication for me. I wasn't fluent but now stringing together thoughts or putting up a debate or having a serious discussion i...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
4 points

Understand you, I try to avoid talking as much as I can, I'm at home taking care of my kids that have health issues, but one day will come that I need a job, and thinking about that, I dont know if I ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
11 points

This is exactly my life. And yes, I am completely exhausted. I come home everyday feeling like I’ve been practically physically assaulted. Feels impossible to actually get close to people living like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
11 points

I feel you. I really embraced being alone when I was a severe stutterer. I'm not presenting that as a positive. There are some healthy things about being able to enjoy times alone. But we all need to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyFriendships & Belonging+1 more