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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
3 points

Do you consider yourself "recovered" ? By recovered i dont mean 100% stutter free all people stutter from time to time but I mean these fear based blocks and anticipation or at least being able to say...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAnticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
1 points

i too lost many amazing jobs because of this,dont say "I won't be eligible as I stutter"..give it a chance,also try practicing speaking skills ,by asking gemini advanced or chat gpt voice to intervie...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
3 points

Hey, In my opinion there is no benefit in pin pointing the original cause of your stutter. Knowing what caused it won’t cure it, unfortunately. I don’t know your grandad and I don’t agree with his beh...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
3 points

This happens all the time! I can hardly remember a time when I actually ordered what I really wanted, lol....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
4 points

As long as the job doesn't require you to give presentations or speak with customers on the phone, it really shouldn't be an issue. My recommendation is just give a heads-up in advance to the recruite...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
7 points

Lol been there so many times. At least you enjoyed ur food! :) This is why I am extremely grateful for food delivery apps. You just select the items and the specifics without having to speak at all th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterNov 1, 2024
14 points

“Funny” thing happened this evening

“Funny” thing happened this evening I attended a Diwali celebration with few of my drone pilot friends. We were doing a photoshoot for the event. After that I was craving Indian food. So I called a ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
1 points

So far I've learnt 4 techniques: 1.prolonging the first syllable of each word. 2.breaking a word into pieces 3. "Voluntary stuttering" (personally this didn't work at all) 4. Do not force a word to c...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
6 points

Hey, when I was your age I would not even consider applying for jobs like that out of fear, you are definitely in the right direction my friend. In the past years I have realized that the only way out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
8 points

Hmm.. this is a tough one since I struggled with thoughts like this too, especially for jobs that I know are require a lot of talking. Thinking that the job will leave you emotionally burned out and p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 1, 2024
15 points

Rejected myself for a job role

Rejected myself for a job role A recruiter reached out to me on LinkedIn and asked me about the availability for interview. I replied back saying, I won't be eligible as I stutter. The qualification...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
2 points

I think when I am drunk or mimic different voice I reduce anxiety and it helps to block my condition until I am in the role....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
1 points

I completely understand you. It sucks. It sucks. It sucks!!!!!!!! I failed many job interviews because I am stuttering. I was able to get to the top master program just because that didn't have an in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
4 points

I changed departments at my job in june. I knew a few people from the other department but the rest of them I didn't. The look of shock in people's first reaction is always the same then it goes on to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
5 points

My best advice is apply and just be transparent about it. Years ago I had a temp job answering phones. I didn't last the day. There are plenty of other ways to get experience/earn money than with doin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 31, 2024
5 points

Over Analyzing

Over Analyzing Hey everyone, I’ve caught myself thinking about my stammer A LOT. Everything I say a sentence I try to sound as fluent as I can and when I don’t I tend to repeat the words I get stuck o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
5 points

I suffer from all 3. Usually not all at the same time. I’ll have days or weeks with pretty good fluidity and then bam. I start blocking. I end up changing the word I want to use if I feel a block comi...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
1 points

I'd imagine it could vary by person though. I don't have a stutter, but will sometimes stop mid sentence and forget how to form the rest of the words, and struggle with word retrieval a lot. It annoys...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
1 points

If you’re close enough finishing the sentences won’t hurt much but it’s not ideal. My wife is patient with me. Nerves definitely make it worse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
2 points

I think you are on the right track by recording yourself, you just need to practice some more. Have fun with it and take control of your voice, instead of speaking too fast. After some time you’ll get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques