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postr/StutterNov 9, 2024
7 points

Im very socially awkward and have a very bad stuttering problem

Im very socially awkward and have a very bad stuttering problem I’m normally alright with conversation and barely used to stutter when I was in college but now it’s gotten even worse, I’m very social...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2024
6 points

I know how you feel bro and I'm sorry you're going through this. The truth is that you actually have to accept just the way you are. Just yesterday I arrived late to class and I had to explain myself ...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2024
2 points

I’m old AF so I’ve got lots of experience in using “alternative” words to ameliorate my stuttering. It really has given me a good vocabulary and sometimes I substitute well known foreign words. I u...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
2 points

I am Irish. So what we say is the word “CHEERS”. I as well get blocks with “TH” words. Also another thing we do is give the “thumbs up hand gesture”. When I was a teenager I have a sever stammer even...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

I do this as well. I'll usually say things like "i appreciate it", and then when that starts to get difficult i switch back to "thank you". sometime's i'll add an extra syllable onto the front of it,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
2 points

for your specific example of saying “thank you”, if i start to stutter on that, i sometimes just stop talking & give a quick friendly gesture (like a thumbs up or something), then try to say it again ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
3 points

Haha. I credit stuttering for my expansive vocabulary as well. I do think there is value to not avoiding words though. Not because you’re hiding your stutter but because you’re reinforcing the behavio...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
4 points

I usually say appreciate it or preciate your help or something like that. When I answered the phone when I was younger I would struggle with Hello or Hi - now I just say Yo or some other casual greet...

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postr/StutterNov 8, 2024
6 points

Any alternative words??

Any alternative words?? Does anyone else have alternative words they say when they stutter on the words they want or trying to say?? I struggle with the “TH” in Thank you when someone compliments me i...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

So true. I remain reticent in many situations. I thought I have a talent for speaking. In normal discussion or debate with peers or some random strangers I can make them shut up with my eloquence. But...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
3 points

Yes, true. My stutter type is silent blocks so I usually switch words or think of an alternative synonym. Sometimes the block resistant is so severe that I had to stop speaking at all because I didn't...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

Have you heard of Toastmasters? I have a stammer, and I couldn't pick up the phone to say hello, and after weekly sessions of Toastmasters, putting myself in a sales position where I experienced sever...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

Yeah, I dont mind sometimes when someone finishes my sentence for me if its something obvious but i know a lot of other people with stammers really dont like it....

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
2 points

Yes i totally get that. When i first noticed i since believed that having huge self esteem help u control your breathe and think clearly about the words you put out. We stutter because we so afraid of...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
2 points

I deal with that alot i'm 34 i usually stutter so bad when i have long conversations or specially confrontational conversations. I still suffer from that but it got alittle better when i force myself ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

I tried speaking infront of mirror, taking a deep breath before i talk and also deliberately tried to slow down my speech and each words but I have terrible blocking that I can't get the words out of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

Ok that's some good advice... I've kinda just accepted that I stutter because I feel like I can't do much about it. Right now, my ADHD and depression have zapped any motivation I have for putting in e...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

I’ve had people assume stuttering was like a drunk person slurring their speech in that it was caused by our actions (like we do something to cause it). I’ve also had people tell me “just spit the wor...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
5 points

That's why I don't buy this 'people are generally good' argument , since I have had asshole experiences with random people , I just act as mute and cite medical condition for not to speak, idgaf about...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

I feel the same, being rejected by stutter which caused low social skills. I got invited to job interview but somehow being ghosted. I think stuttering is hidden reason - yes Im kinda nervous and some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career