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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2021
4 points

Great post - thanks for sharing what got you through on your journey. Like you, I’ve stuttered from a very young age. I thought I was successfully hiding it, but I was only fooling myself. What real...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2021
1 points

Yeah I don't even try to tell jokes anymore. You can stop giving s fuck, and it makes it easier, but that doesn't fix what you talked about....

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2021
2 points

I had a stutter when I was in school. In fact, I still have one. I'm 45 years young now. Yeah I'm old :-) I think it's important to realise that YOU ARE GOING TO STUTTER no matter what. And that's ok...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2021
3 points

thats a great approach to stutter tbh i also dont care what people think of me anymore, they are gonna judge you anyway, even if you dont say anything, so whatever. im happy about your progress, keep...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2021
3 points

Forming a mindset is work man. You are on the right course being conscious of your thoughts. This is how my realization started so keep at it!...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2021
1 points

A book I read that I found really helpful was "Radical Acceptance" by Tara Branch. If you look over some of the more hippie-ish undertones, the actual messages are very good....

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Mindset shiftMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2021
41 points

I think I'm actually making some progress

I think I'm actually making some progress It's not necessarily progress towards being more fluent, but instead towards being able to deal with my stutter and react to it in a better way. I was in a ...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2021
8 points

I'm 21. Until a couple of years ago, I was very conscious of my stutter. I was scared to speak up and all. Two years ago, I finally opened up and spoke to my sister. I told her everything, how I feel...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

think that your speach is about stammering and u r going to share your life that went with stammering.becuase you r fucesing on stutterin more than your main speach so what i told u is the the way to...

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Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
3 points

Alright, that helps a bit. What is it you find hard to accept about your stutter? :) What do you think accepting it would involve? And why do you want to accept it?...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

I’m sorry you had to experience that, here’s some tips exercise regularly, meditating also has helped my speech immensely, also recently I’ve deleted all my social media so now I just give 0 fucks lik...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
19 points

In my opinion you shouldnt be too happy that you stuttered less, you should be happy that you were brave enough and did communicate successfully even with stutter. The path you are taking is dangerous...

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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
2 points

Exactly. And this is something easier said than done of course. It takes practice to engrain this mindset. But hurt people, hurt people....

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
5 points

I have a tip for you that has helped me alot. Just accept that you are a person who stutters and you deserve to live too. Then the next step would be being brave. Just be brave about representing your...

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postr/StutterFeb 16, 2021
5 points

A little encouragement

A little encouragement I visit here infrequently and have had a stutter my whole living memory. The last year or two has been pretty rough and can echo a lot of what I see in some of the posts about t...

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Hope & MotivationSeverity & FluctuationMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
12 points

I've had 20 years of speech therapy and during the first 12 years, I was trained on how to be "fluent". This made me feel broken. Later in my therapy, I learned the mental health aspect which taug...

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Therapy ExperiencesMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
1 points

Yea basically! Basically get more comfortable with the hard situation. But also hopefully makes you better at using healthy techniques. I cycle a lot and basically if something is hard you have to d...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
6 points

Yes, while science doesn't seem to solve our problems, I think we shouldn't just wait passively for a salvation but rather experimenting with many things and maybe find a solution that works for us....

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
7 points

Sure, I know. It’s just a theory. I think it’s healthy to investigate and question these things yourself. I also agree that we still don’t know that much...

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2021
1 points

Dude this hit so hard. It sucks. They don't get it. They won't. So as you said, fuck that shit. Give yourself a break. And when you're in a better place, try to work on that aspect again. I stopped sp...

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