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postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
6 points

Life Advice

Life Advice Hello everyone i hope you are all doing well, i’ve found myself these past few weeks constantly thinking about my stutter and it gets me thinking about how it holds me back from doing thin...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

Most of us will never fully get rid of our stutter. Maybe you could try continuously putting yourself into situations that will make you extremely uncomfortable until you kinda get used to it. But tha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
26 points

I need tips on how to deal with it.

I need tips on how to deal with it. I am 18, and have stuttered my whole life. I have never escaped the little comments, but since being at college I feel like it causes me to have severe social anxi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
4 points

Moving past embarrassment and mental blocks?

Moving past embarrassment and mental blocks? So for context, I have a block stutter and it just shows up whenever it wants, but I mostly stutter in nervous situations or when I think that I’m gonna st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

Thanks for your reply. Accepting stutter is hard, especially when you see happy world around without that, and many possibilites that requires fluent. I'll try some more sport activity, it may helps f...

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postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
9 points

Any tips for helping with my speech blocks?

Any tips for helping with my speech blocks? I dont really know who else to talk about this so ya i am doing it here. I have always stuttered as far as i remember and even tho i never really had a hard...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
9 points

If it's that much of a concern. You should break up with him. I was with relationship with few women in my life time. I told them i stutter. They slowly started to pull away. Its in your woman's intui...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsParent & Caregiver
Helplessness & AgencyDating & RomanceEarly Concern & Onset+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
3 points

OP, I’m sorry but this is not something anybody can tell you. You have to decide which concern takes priority, because ultimately you’re the only one who knows. If you do decide you can’t stay with hi...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 25, 2022
10 points

today I met some of my brother's friends and I feel bad at the end of the day

today I met some of my brother's friends and I feel bad at the end of the day Because I really wanted to create a good first impression, they are cool, they are nice people and interesting, and I real...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterJul 25, 2022
38 points

Have a job interview tomorrow, wish me luck.

Have a job interview tomorrow, wish me luck. Have an interview tomorrow for a job in my dream career field. Been around this block before, feel reasonably confident with the kinds of questions I'll be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
1 points

I should probably write a book on this. I'll try to summarise. I'm very introspective, and realised that I would stammer when part of me wanted to speak and part of me didn't, which created some inne...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
1 points

Thanks for your answer. Resolve inner conflicts. Speak from the heart. Overcome trauma, depression, anxiety. How did you go about doing all of this?...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
9 points

Hi there. I took the time to read what you so courageously have shared and am glad that I did. I can feel the emotion in your words. The depth of it…there is a huge amount of sensitivity and understan...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Validation & EmpathySadness & HopelessnessFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
4 points

MENTAL: Resolve inner conflicts. Speak from the heart. Overcome trauma, depression, anxiety. Mindfulness. Stress resilience. Avoid unnecessary stress. Self-respect. Acceptance. Care less about other p...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
2 points

I was in same situation as you are now. I have stutter my whole life. I have a problem that i want to treat it, i had some moments when i self motivated my self but now while i want to practice, somet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
postr/StutterJul 23, 2022
3 points

Sucky situation #48: Family or friend game night that involves reading or speaking

Sucky situation #48: Family or friend game night that involves reading or speaking Last year I lied to 5 work friends at a Friends-giving. They decided to play a game after dinner that involved readin...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2022
1 points

It’s merely the human experience, there are many types of diseases/disorders/syndromes etc… Our existence and what we get most of the time is life throwing a dart on a board and that’s what we get, ce...

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Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterJul 22, 2022
13 points

Is social isolation/ostracism something we just have to accept as PwS?

Is social isolation/ostracism something we just have to accept as PwS? I feel like this is me pretty much everywhere I go. I hate to sound judgemental, but even the "weird" people seem to have friend...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
29 points

Good for you but Please get off that high horse. Stutter does prevent a lot of people from a lot of stuff. It is a disability when you're not just delayed but sometimes can't say a single word for min...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2022
1 points

You do you. Having empathy for others, and holding myself to a high standard are not my excuses to avoid conversation. The fact I have a severe stutter, along with a distinct aversion to contact of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more