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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2022
4 points

when i was 15 at 2019, i don't think the speech exercises help at all, but having somebody to talk without judgement for 1 hour is great...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2022
1 points

Yes. I torment myself with dreaming of what life without a stutter would be like. What I could have achieved, expressed, participated in without being so familiar with humiliation, shame and embarras...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2022
3 points

I mentioned it in the initial reply (maybe not clearly enough) but I want to try and expand upon it more since you say something like this and it makes me sad. It's quite common to be insecure and h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterNov 24, 2022
40 points

An Open Letter To Everyone Who Laughs When I Stutter

An Open Letter To Everyone Who Laughs When I Stutter To Everyone Who Laughs When I Stutter, Do you know what differentiates humans from other animals? It is our ability to understand complex langua...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2022
2 points

Kinda hard to do that when you have low self-esteem(partially because of the stutter)and don’t even know what your good personality traits are, lol....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 23, 2022
23 points

The thing that bothers me the most about stuttering

The thing that bothers me the most about stuttering I hate it when people say something like "relax" or "breathe" when I stutter. I know they aren't trying to be insulting but I can't help but feel th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2022
2 points

In my 1st semester of engineering, i had to do a presentation for the first time and i was scared shitless. Tried to ask the teacher multiple times to let me skip it but she didn't agree. I wrote a v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
3 points

I do that mouth thing too!!! Looks like Im catching flies!!!! It's so frickin annoying to say the least!!!! People will not wait....usualy they just run for the hills and walk away because they are ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
2 points

I want to kill myself everyday when people are asking me if Im OK or alarmed by it!!!! They noticed something is not right about me and I am unable to communicate!!! Are you cold.....folks walk away...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

I am completely understand what you mean... I truly hate it, many times when I stutter I curse at my self in my mind, or say hateful things about my self. One thing I have hated about my stutter is ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

In order to get rid of stuttering you must learn to hate the stutter not yourself. That is the key thing. You have to be able to look in the mirror and tell yourself that you love yourself, which is n...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
2 points

I felt the same way for years. I hated my stutter and myself when I stuttered. Even though all the fluent people said "it's OK, its just the way you talk, take your time, my relative had a stutter et...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2022
1 points

I used to feel this way too, I’d call myself stupid in my head constantly. When I stopped doing that and started to accept myself and f the people that were jerks my stutter got better, didn’t go away...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2022
11 points

I’m in the same boat, I have so much knowledge but I cant express it, my name starts with a hard vowel such as the letter D and when someone asks for my name I can’t say it as I have a 80% chance of b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2022
12 points

Stutter made me hate myself I think it is one of the worses felling someone can deal with...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2022
1 points

A little, it does feel a bit unfair sometimes and I began stuttering later in life seemingly out of nowhere so as silly as it sounds sometimes i make the joke that I'm 'cursed'. But it really does fee...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2022
2 points

My stutter is my depression. Whenever I speak I can’t get words out so I always l have to abandon whatever I want to say. This makes me not be able to do anything from developing relationships and fri...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterNov 19, 2022
39 points

Treat yourself better than you treat everyone else

Treat yourself better than you treat everyone else Many of us are unforgiving to ourselves. "Our own worst critics" as it were. We'd never be as critical of someone else as we are of ourselves. STOP...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2022
1 points

Yea voluntary stuttering can help with feelings of shame because you are intentionally blocking and "ruining" the flow of the conversation. And it's okay because it doesn't have that same feeling of r...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentLoss of Control
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
3 points

Personally one of my biggest regrets was apologizing for stuttering around this girl I was hanging out with a bit and really into. Apologizing for who I am made me feel inferior and probably wasn’t a ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride