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commentr/StutterDec 23, 2022
12 points

I have blocking and the awkward stare and silence when you're trying to get a sound out and the other person is just looking at you. One of the worst feelings ever...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
1 points

I also don't talk about my stuttering to anyone too, my family is not supportive of my stuttering and I'm generally uncomfortable with the topic of it. Because yeah, it is embarrassing. However, thes...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
5 points

The thing is - they probably don't even know that I stutter, and that it's a disorder which I cannot control. They probably think that I'm just a dumbass weirdo, who just never learned to talk. And ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 22, 2022
22 points

People at office treat me like I'm stupid & slow, and they laugh behind my back

People at office treat me like I'm stupid & slow, and they laugh behind my back Hi there, So, I obviously stutter that's why I'm here. I work from office as Software engineer. Have noticed that s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
1 points

She has sisters but, they’re stuck in the same ways as her parents unfortunately. yeah she is scared of her parents, more so because they basically guilt trip her a lot. It’s a tricky situation but I’...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
2 points

Unfortunately she has those kind of parents who don’t accept things. They’re very similar with mental health and they completely sweep her feelings under the rug. I’m sorry it made you feel that way...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
2 points

I fell for a really similar scam and was very disheartened because I was made to feel as though I didn’t try hard enough. I’d need to hear more about the specifics but if she goes into it viewing it a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentCure Claims / Alt-Treats
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
3 points

I'm 31 and I haven't met too many other stutters in my life to be honest only 2 or 3 at most..Stuttering has literally ruined my life honestly, but there are others that it doesn't affect they're live...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
2 points

This happened to me (yet again) at a medical office a few weeks ago. The nurse asked me if I forgot. To her credit, a bit later, she asked me sincere questions about my stutter, wanting to learn m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 18, 2022
23 points

Stuttering is not a form of amnesia--this post is for ignorant non-stutterers!!

Stuttering is not a form of amnesia--this post is for ignorant non-stutterers!! Do people think we have amnesia because we stutter??? They always ask if "you forget your name"???? Why would we ever f...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 18, 2022
1 points

Do you know sign language???

Do you know sign language??? A few years ago at CHRISTmas time....I was shopping...and I was stuttering some...and this sales girls asks politely if I knew sign language??? I was sort of taken aback--...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
3 points

One way of doing it is to figure out for yourself why you are arfaid. Is it because you are ashamed of stuttering? Do you have bad experiences tied to stuttering in front of people (E.g. bullying)? Is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2022
3 points

Unfortunately this is correct. I'm 31 and had a extremely hard life on top of severe stuttering and I'm surprised I haven't tried to commit suicide yet. Having a severe stutter as a young man no matte...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
8 points

I’m nearly 20 and won’t go to Dr appointments alone. I can’t BEAR stuttering in front of strangers like receptionists and doctors. The embarrassment of having my mother come with me is much more beara...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
1 points

It depends. I agree not to avoid all situations. But ones that are high risk for mental torture for years to come, avoid them. Putting yourself at risk for severe embarrassment/humiliation WILL make y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
10 points

I haven't been able to meet new people in over a decade now. I'm just too controlled by my embarrassment of having my stutter. It's just not worth trying to talk to people and dealing with the looks, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
2 points

I'm glad voluntary stutters has helped so many people. It didn't help me when I tried it, though. It just made me more self-conscious. Maybe I didn't have the right mindset at the time but I just felt...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
1 points

I think you are redefining disfluency and adding this element of avoidance behavior. Last time i checked, most professionals characterize avoidance as a secondary behavior, NOT as one of the three ty...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

Edit - Nevermind… for some reason, you are gatekeeping *what stuttering is*! I described the following - ordering a tuna melt when you wanted a hamburger *because of panic blocking* Begging someone ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

Not trying to be negative at all but I can not possibly understand how opening yourself up to being mocked, made fun of or insulted that undoubtedly leads to some type of trauma being a good thing....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying