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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
2 points

Yes indeed, I’ve been pretty fluent the past couple months. I was overthinking the pronunciation for the food ‘gyro’ and hit a block when I went to say it, at that moment I likely could’ve shit myself...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
1 points

Had my first stutter in awhile ordering food today 😂 gave me an opportunity to laugh even though I almost shit pants in the moment...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
1 points

Sadly, I can relate ti every single single thing you have said. My stammer holds me back from being my true authentic self around people. The bitterness and anger I feel about this is eating me up. I ...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2023
11 points

From my perspective, vai, this is 100% true. I accepted the fact that I'm a stutterer. And I can live with it. I know it will be hard and I will have to face so many things, but once I accepted it, ...

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postr/StutterJan 3, 2023
51 points

I hate that I can't defend myself when wronged .

I hate that I can't defend myself when wronged . A friend squandered part of my pay after working some short term job,he was in charge of making sure everyone got their share,he used part of that mone...

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Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 1, 2023
10 points

why do I pause mid sentence while talking?

why do I pause mid sentence while talking? Ever since I was 9 I've had a major speech impairment where I'll pause mid sentence. It basically feels like the words are in my mind but just won't come out...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
1 points

Happens quite a lot to me. I am usually nice and explain but I understand how it would kill the mood. Happened just a few days ago went to the gym with my brother. Front desk asked for my name and I c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
2 points

It depends on the giggle and person. Some people giggle because they find it cute or endearing (Especially girls), you can probably tell from the way they giggle or laugh. Often times I like this. If ...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
7 points

Giggled?...there has been times I've gotten full blown laughed in my face and humiliated. Some people have also just walked away while I was struggling to get words out. People have hung up on me beca...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
1 points

Yeahhh even with random people I stutter way more I hate it...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
17 points

Sorry that happened. Yeah… I remember. It’s humiliating, because you’re seriously there, in that moment, fully engaged in the struggle. Slaying a dragon, as it were. And they giggle at what they’re ...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
8 points

Two things can be true at the same time 1. It hurts like hell. 2. If we haven’t disclosed in some way, it’s not their fault, or evidence they are laughing at our “disability”/difference. Now, if ...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
10 points

Happened a couple of times. Once the guy on the other side couldn't hold in his laughter and just straight up bursted and laughed out loud for a solid 2 minutes. Worst memories....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
9 points

It hurts my feelings some times. I nervously laugh pretty often though so I try to give the person the benefit of the doubt...

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postr/StutterJan 1, 2023
25 points

Anyone else got giggled at in a casual convo with strangers

Anyone else got giggled at in a casual convo with strangers As I'm being more conscious about keeping eye contact and be more present in a conversation, I began to notice a lot of the times when I hit...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2022
1 points

i do the exact same things those weird pauses lowkey kill my confidence so i’m always saying “uh” lmao nice to know i’m not alone tho...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
2 points

I have confidence in op & wish him success, but the problem in doing what you said in my experience was getting publicly humiliated and abused by all my peers. I was in school 20+ years ago & ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
1 points

When I was in high school I couldn't say my name (stuttered horrendously) In front of my whole class and got absolutely abused for it and bullied for along time...it was hands down 1 of the most traum...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
1 points

I have stuttering issue too. I stammer at the start of the words, and I don't know what to do, I get anxiety when I am in a classroom or in public, and when I speak the person in front of me judges me...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 28, 2022
21 points

Introduction

Introduction Hello guys I'm new to this group,I'm Michael and I'm 18 years old and just finished highschool.Just like you I'm struggling with accepting my speech impediment and yes it's bad most days ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages