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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
5 points

Totally understood. I hate the fact that we even have to talk during lunch. The best solution would be a self-serve system (though probably impossible because people are greedy pigs) where you just p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
7 points

Intentionally creating conflicts? Been there. Matter of fact, I'm still there. I remember dropping a class in college in which the professor would have the class answer a random question proposed via...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
4 points

Very well written. I could feel what you felt. It's painful to think of the things we do to avoid embarrassing ourselves. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
5 points

We can't run away forever and we can't hide our stutter forever. So as Tyrion said Embrace it wear it like armor. Have a great day....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
2 points

Great writing, it resonates a lot with what I'm going through. I believe self-acceptance (accepting yourself with your stuttering) and accepting that it's okay to stutter, also standing to your stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PridePositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
5 points

Agree, but would only add to have the right mentality when facing scary situations, which means to take care of your mental health, maybe see a therapist if you think you need to, so you have the ment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
36 points

I learned this when i realised its either i face my fears or i was gonna die poor.I missed so many opportunities.Now idc at all.Am currently doing my Masters in teaching.I can barely speak but am doin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
19 points

I can relate 💔 sorry you had to go through that. What I’ve done before is type my name or message in my phone and show whoever I’m talking to my phone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
50 points

This was painful to read. Very well described. I purposely arrive at some work events late, intentionally creating schedule conflicts so I "miss" the name game/intros at the start....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
1 points

Yeah i got a phone call for a job a week ago and the woman who I talked to inviting me to an interview hang up on me 2 times because i couldn't say a sound. It's so frustrating...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
2 points

I always say, ‘I stammer and I experience word blocks so it takes me a while to say my name’ whenever I’m asked. They usually go ‘that’s fine’, then I proceed to spell it out and they pronounce it and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
2 points

It is debilitating when that happens. As hard as it is, and the desire to power through a word...you have to stop. Just flat out stop. Don't talk. Don't say a word. Instead, take a deep breath. Then...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
6 points

I can't either, in fact most people who stutter this is one of the toughest parts of speech. I'm sure people have theories why. Worst for me is when I do manage to get my name out and don't stutter. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
8 points

That is a terrible time in any stutterer's life. I know for me, it was a daily grind. Especially when I knew I "had" to speak. Whether it was school, employment, socializing, etc...it was taxing. Yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterDec 17, 2024
22 points

Stuttering has stuck my life

Stuttering has stuck my life I’m a 20-year-old living in NYC, and I’ve been dealing with stuttering since I was a kid. It’s something that upsets me every single day because there are so many words I ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
6 points

Always a tricky one for me, I try adding an extra word or something to get some flow. "call me Alex" "it's alex" etc...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

I'm the same! I have had to bastardize my given name for years. At any job I have had I have asked everyone to refer to me as a name that's doesn't even resemble my given name!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
2 points

Try yes maam, or I'M present, For reading, i hope that you can read alone quite well and without blocks, so when asked to read, just try to think youre sitting in your chair, at your desk and reading...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
4 points

For me, I try spelling the word. I would restart the sentence or phrase in which the block occurred and then spell the blocked word out. Often times that works....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterDec 17, 2024
2 points

How to tell the word

How to tell the word Do u guyz have a technique to say the word that is blocked.. I have speech block... And when block appears.. I usually skip or use synonym, any trick to tell the word, i usually ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names