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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
1 points

Yes i think i have that problem. I call it a problem, not to call anyone else out, but i feel it means I care more about being embarrassed than i do communicating effectively. And i ignore this fact...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
2 points

I have this memory of a medical assistant i believe giglging into her shirt a little when i was stuttering talking to the doctor. I cant quite remmeber much because it was so long ago but this post b...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

I think we all get this way sometimes. Sometimes i get angry at myself even though i know its not my fault. Sometimes I'll be depressed for a whole day after one stutter flare where i needed to comm...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2023
9 points

I never really cared what people thought, I just don't like or tolerate disrespect from people when it comes to the stutter that's caused me so much pain in life. And I can tell right off the bat if a...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterMar 10, 2023
10 points

So just talk to people and not focus on the stutter makes 0 sense.

So just talk to people and not focus on the stutter makes 0 sense. So I'm immature for.the thoughts I have? How do I approach this without hating humans after? I genuinely dont know what emotions I'm ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
4 points

Yeah, you are overreacting. Living with a stutter is not rainbows and sunshine. Some people may not have the mental power to change their perspective on life. Or lived with traumatic experiences with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
4 points

Yeah this happened quite a few times to me as well, i.e. ppl thinking I don't speak the language. Also the usual "did u forget ur name?" joke I've heard a million times....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
1 points

Non-medical(is that a word?) Ppl reactions are often worse. They just straight up regret asking u anything and make that face. I've had my fair share of even educated ppl uncontrollably laughing in my...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
2 points

That's a weird one for sure! Nothing more than an awkward laugh for me. Most people (that aren't medically trained) don't really react I've found...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
6 points

That's completely fine, I also can't spell my name out when asked suddenly, I understand how you felt. Once a man was filling a form on behalf of me (idk why he didn't handover the form to me) and s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 9, 2023
33 points

Weirdest reaction to your stutter

Weirdest reaction to your stutter I recently went to the hospital for an appointment and the nurse took me to the other room to get my BP and everything. She asked for my name and I started stuttering...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterMar 8, 2023
7 points

So I just need to "get over" the fact that stuttering is a battle I cant win?

So I just need to "get over" the fact that stuttering is a battle I cant win? You see, people are telling me that I need to stop thinking of it in a negative light but I simply cant guys. It's like wa...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
1 points

I'm glad it's working for you, but I wouldn't tell this to a kid. It's teaching them how to hide their stutter, which teaches them they should hide it, which teaches them that stuttering is bad, which...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
3 points

I’m traumatised from being asked “did you forget your name?” Multiple times in my life. People are just so oblivious to other people’s issues it’s insane...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
2 points

I worked at a knife store in my 20’s. I had a customer call (the phone is the worst!) and I was speaking so badly the customer said “I’m gonna ask you a question… you only have to answer ‘yes’ or ‘no’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 8, 2023
5 points

I want to become an interpreter, but my stutter is holding me back

I want to become an interpreter, but my stutter is holding me back I have a gift with language learning. I pick them up quickly, retain information about grammar and verb conjugations, and I always na...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 8, 2023
22 points

SO HOW DO I JUST ACCEPT IT?

SO HOW DO I JUST ACCEPT IT? I'm having alot of difficulty, wrapping my head around just accepting my stutter. Ive hated it all my life, and even though I know stuttering isnt my fault, i still feel li...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 8, 2023
15 points

Working in Retail

Working in Retail After a lifetime of being terrified to work with customers I had no other option than to work in retail customer service as I needed work ASAP. I’ve worked there for over a year now ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2023
1 points

Yes. I would give ALOT to just be able to speak like a "normal" human speaks. Without those blocks inside my own mind and throat. Im 41 and had the gift/curse/superpower(wut?) since I was 6. It doesnt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
1 points

OP I feel you. I used to say I was a different name at the park because I couldn’t get my own name out. I used to throw up before the first little league practice when we had to say our names. I used ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment