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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
25 points

I’m sorry that you had to go through that, but most of us here have had it our entire lives and faced bullying and rejection since a very young age. So the thought of having to “come out” to family ab...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
-7 points

I didnt come on here to be judged. I was embarrassed to tell her at first and me telling her now is a big deal for me...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
4 points

I was never adopted. I developed a stutter when I was in my early 20s and chose not to tell my family because I was literally embarrassed to tell them....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
49 points

What do you mean your mom took it well? Did you not have one growing up? Why are we coming out as a stutterer?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
12 points

how does that even work? unless you were adopted and only communicated through texts i don't see this happening. it's not like you can hide it like being gay lol. also, yeah it is hereditary as well. ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 16, 2024
4 points

I told my mom that I have a stutter and she took it well

I told my mom that I have a stutter and she took it well I got off the phone with my mom not too long ago and I asked her if anybody on her or my dad side of the family had a stutter. She said that sh...

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Genetic & Family FactorsValidation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
6 points

So. There’s a lot to unpack here but I will keep it simple and say: I hear you, and also fear of public speaking has nothing to do with fluency. I have a stutter and I’m not afraid of public speaking....

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postr/StutterSep 16, 2024
0 points

NON-stutterers terrified of public speaking is rediculace!!!

NON-stutterers terrified of public speaking is rediculace!!! It makes absolutely 0 sense for NON stuttering folks to be terrified of public speaking!!!!! Speaking for non-stutterers is obviously effo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

I don’t consider myself disabled but it is technically a disability. You have to prove that it is actually making a negative impact on your life but if you can stuttering is a disability...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/stutteringSep 16, 2024
1 points

spasmodic dysphonia? I might have it. Might be hereditary. If you want to practice talking and share advice or tips, lmk. would be happy to chat....

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

damn, you can't tell someone you're just retarded anymore. damn. honestly though i never bothered to check the box because fuck that....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

I’ll give the book a read. Maybe I can take my speech to superhuman levels\[ lol feels wierd saying it, knowing how f\*\*ked I was\] . Also for anyone reading this, when u get fluency in ur speech and...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

I’ve had a stutter my entire life and even though it’s not super severe in general, it can get worst and better like a rollercoaster which other people go through also from reading some of the other c...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Cycles & RandomnessSeverity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

Mam nadzieję, że to nie dziwne, ale aż mi się miło zrobiło jak zobaczyłam tutaj kogoś, kto też mówi po Polsku!! Ciekawe jest to, że jąkasz się (czy tylko ja nienawidzę tego słowa po polsku?) we wszys...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

There’s a severe lack of awareness and unfortunately that leads to all the misconceptions like it having to do with our intelligence or we’re just really anxious. And yeah not many people want to take...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

There’s a severe lack of awareness and unfortunately that leads to all the misconceptions like it having to do with our intelligence or we’re just really anxious. And yeah not many people want to take...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

Mam nadzieję, że to nie dziwne, ale aż mi się miło zrobiło jak zobaczyłam tutaj kogoś, kto też mówi po Polsku!! Ciekawe jest to, że jąkasz się (czy tylko ja nienawidzę tego słowa po polsku?) we wszys...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

You stutter yes? That doesn't make you dumb. It makes you a person who stutters. Stuttering is not an easy thing to deal with. People can be cruel. Being shit on all the time from other kids at school...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

My stutter unfortunately never reduced enough for me to become an extrovert, but I think that’s exactly what would've happened to me in that case....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2024
1 points

I tend to stutter less in other languages. I'm french and speak spanish and english. I almost never stutter in those languages, even when I lived in a spanish-speaking country and speak it way more th...

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Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking