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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

I stutter and I’m 25M. You’ll be fine. Just keep ur head up....

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

TLDR : I felt the same way, but you are doing yourself a disservice by bearing that mindset. Improve yourself and if you have your moments so be it. (24M), I'll say the one thing that helped me beco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
3 points

As soon as I got out of high school, women loved my stutter. It was so confusing, but who am I to complain. 36m here, I promise you it gets way better....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

You won't. Your's might get better, but don't feel blue and I know you feel that it defines you. It doesn't....

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Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
3 points

Dude I'm also 16M and I can guarantee you won't die alone. I'm shy but I used to be even more shy and even though I still stutter (especially in class) it gets better. I try not to let it hold me back...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

Bro trust you won't be alone. I'm 43 and I've gotten more women because I stutter. I served over 21 years as a first responder and almost 16 in the military. You have to have confidence in yourself. I...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
6 points

Be more open with your teacher and classmates you have a stutter. It’s very freeing. Laugh it off. Disarm the negative thoughts you have and anxiety you have about that moment....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

I know how it is. But like me, if you truly want to not let it rule you, you have to do or try EVERYTHING in reach to get rid of it. I went through a lot of ways, I found how much of it is useless. O...

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Mindfulness & BreathingHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
3 points

Iam in my mid twenties, and the funny thing is ive already gotten over it for the most part. Why does this sub not talk about people who've cured their stuttering? Anyways, dont worry you aint dying ...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

Hey brother, I'm 34 and I've stuttered my whole life. It's not severe, but it's enough to make socializing pretty stressful. I was really embarrassed of it when I was young. Now that I'm "older", wh...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
4 points

My brother has a severe stutter and is married with a beautiful baby. I have a mild stutter and I am also married. Neither of us were super shy though in school. We pushed through and made friends who...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
6 points

I felt the exact same way when I was 16. I thought I’d never have a girlfriend (or friends, for that matter) and never be able to hold a job. I had really low self-worth. I had to learn how to love ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
6 points

I felt the same way at your age, but beleive me, things change. You're entering an age where more and more women will not look for someone "popular and cool" especially. You can be someone very intere...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
6 points

Hey, I’m a 21M with a stutterer and I have a girlfriend. I’ve had multiple relationships in the past too. I’ve always thought I was undesirable because of my stutter, but I slowly began to realize tha...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
5 points

28M here, been stuttering my whole life and honestly school was dreadful for me. Changed schools 4 times between 6th and 12th grade. Was lucky enough to swap to fully online school in 12th grade and ...

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School & Academic LifeLoneliness & IsolationHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
27 points

Let me give you hope bros. Accept you got a stutter in your heart and mind. Fk what people think. Have your swag, and just be confident. It will work. Take practice and patience but it will work....

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Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
28 points

Dont worry bro, i stutter too and they get bad sometimes but you cant just hide behind it forever, you stutter so what? Doesnt make you less of a man. Go out talk to friends meet new people, and dont ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
-6 points

Stop being a pussy. I have a bad stutter and that hasnt stopped me from dating women and making friends. You will be alone if you keep having that lousy attitude and low self esteem because nobody wil...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

This is how I think about it: We have trauma because of past experiences, so we stutter as we relate to them. We basically think that the next situation will be the same as the last one - this is a p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

I believe in you! Disclose your stutter and then do your best! You got this....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others