Search

commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
3 points

Yes, I’m currently in a masters program as well. I completely understand where you’re coming from; it is exhausting. The best piece of advice I can give is please don’t let your stutter change what yo...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 5, 2021
2 points

How can my interviewer make the experience better for me?

How can my interviewer make the experience better for me? I gave my interviewer a heads-up that I am a stammerer and he asked how he can make the interviewer a better experience for me. Please, how ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2021
2 points

I definitely do not think it is necessary. I opened up to my senior manager during my internship a while about having a bit of a stutter at times, and asked for some tips when presenting meetings at w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2021
1 points

Thanks for the reply! It is definitely a long process and needs courage and work. I have a question: Do you think that telling people about your stutter before speaking is necessary? I feel like I ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2021
5 points

I would look into speech therapy as it's really diminishing your self-esteem - you shouldn't view speech therapists as a cure to make stuttering go away as there is no cure, but a good one will help b...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapyHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2021
1 points

It's okay to stutter, it's not a crime, and famous people don't let it hold them back, but it only becomes a problem when it begins to really be impacting your self-esteem which it clearly is by the s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2021
5 points

Tell him you stutter and it may take you a bit longer to get out what you are trying to say....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2021
9 points

I’m a 26m also with more of a mild stutter. Personally, I would say that you should do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable. If self-disclosing your stutter before meeting reduces some anxiety...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterApr 17, 2021
5 points

Should I tell people I stutter? Online dating

Should I tell people I stutter? Online dating I'm a 24f female. I haven't dated a lot of people, but I've recently started back through an online platform. I have a mild stutter, it's not really bad b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterApr 17, 2021
5 points

Have you ever talk with your close friend about your stutter?

Have you ever talk with your close friend about your stutter? For example how does he sees your stutter, if he understands what stutter even is and so on?...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice OfferedValidation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2021
2 points

do people know you're a stutterer? I have a big friend group and really they all tell me that no one cares that I stutter, in fact they like it when I do because they know then that I'm not holding ba...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2021
1 points

To ne honest I never take meds for stuttering. In the last week I've started pushing myself to talk and practice daily for 1 to 2 hours doing lives in Facebook groups and pushing to talk to people in ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2021
9 points

CONGRATS! I had a job interview the other day (lawyer) and she asked me my biggest weakness. I told her about my stutter. I. Got. The. Job. They can’t hold us down!!!!...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2021
21 points

When I got my job as an EE, manager took out the team for a lunch meet and greet. Obviously the talking point was the new hire. I was anxious knowing that I was about to do a lot of talking. I was gon...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
2 points

It does make sense. I guess I say sorry in these situations because my stutter has held up the proceedings a little, rather than apologising for my disability per se. (Also I'm in the UK, and we autom...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
3 points

Good advice. I try my best to not say sorry because it sets the tone that something is wrong with me. I hope that makes sense....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
21 points

I'm sorry, I know how much that sucks. I had a really bad stutter a few weeks ago while I was leading a group Zoom chat with a professional guest in attendance. UGH. Personally, I find it helpful to s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
5 points

Disclose your stuttering, first thing. Sounds crazy, right? Crazy like a fox - it works. Why? Because YOU decide when the listener finds out. And because you have told them, they’re very unlikely to m...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
3 points

No one accepts your stutter more than your partner. I tell stories to my girlfriend all the time and sometimes I stutter, yet she still listens carefully. What you say matters, regardless of how you s...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2021
4 points

I have a stutter and am currently engaged too. I feel the same way sometimes. I just let myself talk about whatever is on my mind. Because she is the only person that I try to fully open up to. You mi...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others