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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
5 points

When I was a child I'd tell my mom I'd trade a hand for free speech. Just because you have a stutter doesn't mean you can have any of the above you mentioned. To be fair, you are both more likely to...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
3 points

Just please know— You are not alone. We are going through this together. Have you tried /considered looking into stuttering support groups? I spent my whole life feeling all alone and hopeless. I sta...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 9, 2023
18 points

What are the consequences of not giving an F?

What are the consequences of not giving an F? Basically the question. What will happen if I don't care about my stutter, no matter how long a block might be (I'm talking about 40 secs of silence block...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
1 points

I understand how stutters can become self-denying, and thats a good thing but it also depends on the intentions that you have. Is your intention to just give up? If thats the case, you are your own en...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 5, 2023
2 points

Why do I stutter

Why do I stutter I’m 18 M and I started stuttering about 3 months ago randomly. It’s mainly when I know what I want to say and wait until I can say it then I can’t even say it at all or just the first...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesOnset & Life-Stage ChangesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2023
1 points

I know the struggles. I had the same situation 2 years ago around the same time of year. I was working all through the Easter holiday as a delivery driver and couldn’t say ‘thank you’ when I got a tip...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterApr 5, 2023
12 points

Frustrations and Worries

Frustrations and Worries (I’m sorry this is so long I just needed a place to get this all out) I’m a freshman at college right now, and I’m going through a bit of a transformative period of my life....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 3, 2023
1 points

It’s hard to be optimistic about the future

It’s hard to be optimistic about the future I try so hard to be optimistic about the future but everyday I grow more and more tired of this dreadful affliction. As of late, nothing has been working ou...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2023
13 points

This was my life for 35 years until enough was enough. Once I stopped caring what other people thought of my stutter, something changed in me and I began to live my life on my terms, not anyone els...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterApr 3, 2023
31 points

Worn down, unable to achieve self-acceptance

Worn down, unable to achieve self-acceptance Now I am older, I don't have any interactions that feel like big traumatic wounds to be replayed over and over again as a result of having a speech impedim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
postr/StutterApr 2, 2023
1 points

should i drop out of nursing school ?

should i drop out of nursing school ? I have been so sad and dead inside for couple of days, i’m rethinking my whole career and my life. Im literally crying while typing this. Im a mild stutterer and...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 31, 2023
8 points

Trying to read aloud and the words won’t come out

Trying to read aloud and the words won’t come out I consider myself to have a mild stutter, lately it’s been severe. It usually comes in waves, sometimes it’s hard to get some words out, but I’m prett...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 31, 2023
15 points

To all those who don't stutter anymore

To all those who don't stutter anymore Have you reached a point where you don't even think about speaking anymore. Like when you don't even think about you possibly stuttering ?...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2023
2 points

Yep, i tend to delude myself sometimes that i can do certain things just like normal. I appreciate the kind words...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2023
3 points

>It's like we can't have our full potential because of this stutter. We probably never will....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2023
8 points

I agree. It's like we can't have our full potential because of this stutter....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 30, 2023
23 points

Hopeless

Hopeless Hello, so I had made a post a couple days ago but I feel that it is important for me to just vent on how I feel. This may come out as negative or hopeless but this is the state I am in. I hav...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
6 points

I mean, that sucks, your mother sounds callous, and obviously anyone with a stutter can empathize, but it sounds like the stutter and its consequences -were- the reason why you left. There’s nothing w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
3 points

Being bullied for being quiet is worse experience than being bullied for speaking and stuttering. People who don't stay quiet have easier time gaining allies to support them, in school and outside sch...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
3 points

Asking this years ago I would’ve had an answer but today looking back truly nothing. As I’m well into my journey I’ve learned every opportunity I’ve let go because of my stutter forced me into a direc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride