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postr/StutterJan 22, 2022
6 points

Stutter with Confidence - Becoming Open, Active, and Positive about our Speech and Life (Podcast Episode)

Stutter with Confidence - Becoming Open, Active, and Positive about our Speech and Life (Podcast Episode) Stutter with Confidence #60 with Andrey Denisenko Learning to become Open, Active, and Positi...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
10 points

It made me focus on my speech and now I am 99% fluent and looking at sales/management positions. It helped me realize that everyone makes small mistakes once in a while and they aren't a big deal....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2022
6 points

I understand what you are Saying i am also going in the same approach, another thing i would like to add to your description is how we react to our own stutter if i don't immediately react negatively ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 20, 2022
18 points

How to test if you are making progress in your speech (not about fluency)

How to test if you are making progress in your speech (not about fluency) Isn't the answer “you are making speech progress when you are stuttering less”? That would be an easy answer, but contradict...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
3 points

Totally understandable, there's a very notorious pathway of seeing adversity and disability as "inspiration" or something we overcame or something that makes us different and somehow we should love wh...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
1 points

That's interesting! Can you explain your reasoning more? Because my understanding is that you can't just forget stuttering, it is something you will have your whole life. I've learnt that it's best to...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2022
4 points

For me, it depends on how much of a threat I perceive the person to be regardless of gender. I can be a modern day Casanova with one woman, but an infantile blubbering mess with the next. Same with me...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
13 points

It has to do with how vulnerable your willing to be. Men seem to have a more toxic outlook towards vulnerability and it’s acceptance so maybe that’s why you are blocking. Expressing yourself is a form...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2022
6 points

I think its time to stop caring about what others think of your stutter. Try to talk about your stutter with someone. Practice mindfulness meditation, read aloud Try to stutter in purpose with someon...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2022
1 points

Depends on situation. If it's casual aquantances I don't bother. They'll work it out. If it's a professional or formal type situation. I just say up front. I have a stutter, I'm fine with it so you d...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
3 points

I used to think this way, I'm moderate to severe overt and I figured people could figure it out themselves. It's honestly shocking how many people don't. It's sitiational for me. Casual interactions...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
2 points

I just said i wanna tell u something personal and then i said that u obviously noticed that i stutter. Are you comfortable with that cause i try to hide it sometimes and it just happens and I can’t st...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
9 points

I never do they find out by watching and listening to me talk. The way I see it if I were missing an arm I wouldn’t have to tell everyone hey my arm is gone they’ll get the picture....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJan 15, 2022
15 points

Mindset Can Be a Game Changer

Mindset Can Be a Game Changer Stuttering is a tricky one and I’ve had it since birth. Most of the time it gets better as you get older, but to give some advice, mindset can defiantly be a game changer...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Do it! And the sooner in the conversation/meeting, the better. When I was younger I found myself always being afraid (and by afraid I mean often terrified) of what Other People would think about me if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
5 points

I have a speech impediment, which is a hard word for someone to say with a speech impediment. It's a good opener because it makes them laugh. It's always worked for me. Thanks Zach Galifianakis....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Yess! Being open about who you are is the ultimate act of freedom. Disclosures such as telling someone you stutter has the ability to let go a lot of expectations you could be carrying around. A...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

This was one of my "scariest" challenges I've ever done. (Ps. This was pre-c0v1d) Funny enough, it was one of the most pivotal challenges I've done that helped me in my speech journey. Holding th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSituational VariabilityMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
2 points

I'm a teacher and I stutter. I'm in my 3rd year teaching and about 2 years ago, started speech therapy and letting myself stutter more openly but I still hide it too. For interview advice, do what'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
2 points

Totally agree. People get bullied for their insecurities. If you are insecure because of your stuttering you get bullied. If you are insecure because of your weight you get bullied. If you are insec...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAuthenticity vs. Masking