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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
1 points

I am so sorry that you had this experience. The interviewer sounds like a jerk. If you are in the U.S., please consider calling the suicide and crises hotline 988 for mental health support....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
3 points

Yeah I know many have the confidence not to let their stammer hold them back, I admire them for that, me I've always been totally embarrassed and ashamed of it.. Around 30 tears ago I started train...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 15, 2023
1 points

Evaluation

Evaluation Hello I am a 18 year old man with a severe stutter. I just had a job interview and I stuttered on every word and in every sentence. After all of it I would say there is literally a 0% chanc...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

Maybe someone relates?

Maybe someone relates? I might never find the one. In this world of able bodied people, I will never find the one. The one who will stare into other person's eyes when I am talking. The one whose faci...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

The first time I ran into another pws at my family's store yes omg this. I regret how I handled the whole thing wanna just go back in time and hug him 😔...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
10 points

I cringe too, i can only imagine how much harder non stutterers cringe listening to me...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
3 points

I cringe hard when I talk to another stutterer 🤣 probably how other people feel when I talk to them...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
6 points

I know. I watched a documentary on stutters and some course they went on to help them, it's called "stammer school" on YouTube and is 47 minutes long. It was a tough watch but I feel so happy for th...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
62 points

I guess i project my own feelings when i stutter to them. "How do i look? Oh God do they think I'm stupid? Why am i spazzing?". I almost can't watch stutterers at all....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
114 points

It makes me cringe seeing other stutterers, as a stutterer myself...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2023
1 points

Yes, I'm always so deflated afterwards especially if I said it without a stutter and I'm proud of myself. Now I have to repeat it and ruin it lol...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
1 points

I've been stuttering since I was 10. Now 18 and it sucks ass but I gotta suck it up and stop hating myself for it. I've done speech therapy with multiple people over the years nothing seems to really ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
1 points

I’m sure every single person in this group has felt this way atleast once. I’m 22 and feel this every now and then, but I am starting to realize feeling bad for yourself will only make it worse. Peopl...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2023
6 points

Hi, I'm 60, and I literally have had a lifetime of exactly what you describe. My stutter has held me back in everything, I go from one dead end job to another, I feel ashamed and embarrassed almo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
3 points

I feel you on this. I've gotten paid dramatically less then those who had far less experience then me. Even tho I had to fix there fuck ups, they were getting paid more then me cause more social. I ha...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Employment & CareerShame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
7 points

I can't imagine being 30 and stuttering, it makes my heart wrench just by imagining it. stuttering is embarrassing and it's hard to be around people who stutter....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJun 8, 2023
92 points

I'm tired of all of you acting like stuttering isn't a big deal

I'm tired of all of you acting like stuttering isn't a big deal stuttering has caused me to hate everything just the fact of me thinking about my old classmates moving much higher than me in life is ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2023
1 points

I struggle with the same thing, I have def felt this before 😔 you’re not alone, and I’m so sorry you feel this way as well!!!...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
2 points

real. people who speak normally will never know (most of them) how many opportunities they get or in general, how lucky they are for being able to speak fluently. what did i do in my past life to have...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
1 points

Yes, it was always that look of surprise and pity I hated the most. I found myself never looking the listener in the face until I realized everyone has some deformity. Ours just is more obvious. Reali...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride