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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
1 points

Yeah but I think people still have biases. I am afraid I am seen as less confident just because I have this disability...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 9, 2024
7 points

Im very socially awkward and have a very bad stuttering problem

Im very socially awkward and have a very bad stuttering problem I’m normally alright with conversation and barely used to stutter when I was in college but now it’s gotten even worse, I’m very social...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 9, 2024
45 points

I've never met someone with a stutter. Is it THAT rare?

I've never met someone with a stutter. Is it THAT rare? I'm a stutterer but I haven't met anyone with a stutter in real life yet. Of course I've seen a lot of people that stutter on the Internet, but ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 8, 2024
213 points

I got my first tattoo today

I got my first tattoo today It's the stuttering awareness ribbon with the quote "I speak freely, not fluently." Underneath, just thought it would be good to share it here!...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

You stutter, I stutter, a lot of people stutter, if 99% of people around you stuttered you wouldn't care, it's the fact most people don't that makes you feel insecure and awkward when you do, I can't ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 8, 2024
7 points

Do you stutter around people who also stutters?

Do you stutter around people who also stutters? Hi, I noticed that I am fluent around people who stutters. However, I stutters a lot when I am around fluent people who makes me less confident. Do yo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
3 points

Yea I’ve noticed exactly what you mentioned OP. Even the word “stutter”, isn’t designated to mean a speech impairment or speech disorder. Which kinda doesn’t leave space for pws in society. Language d...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

Reality is what you make it. And even the ADA says it can be considered a disability but it’s not necessarily a disability. We can agree to disagree at this point....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

I disagree that it isn’t a disability. It is recognized and covered under ADA as a disability. Now, for you if it helps to think it is not a disability but more empowering, you should continue you to ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
0 points

Your first sentence. Stuttering isn’t a disability. It’s not “a lot lot harder to get dates”. I wholeheartedly disagree with that sentiment and even more so when it comes in the form of advice to othe...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
10 points

We are rare and underrepresented. Your friends don’t live all aspects of your life, they see you sometimes. They probably mostly see you at your best when you are having fun. They can’t comprehend you...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
0 points

Dude you’re making such a large generalization that you’re undermining peoples experiences just because they DO have a partner. You sound bitter af. All my relationships include various stuttering sev...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 7, 2024
15 points

Why is stuttering really so misunderstood/noticed with everybody and all general societies?

Why is stuttering really so misunderstood/noticed with everybody and all general societies? I am still quite young and was taking to a friend a while back about my stutter since it’s not anywhere as s...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
10 points

God knows what you're going through brotherman. It sucks, but it has made you stronger your entire life. I have a bad stutter and it sucks, I know. But it has molded your heart into something special....

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

Friends. Sorry to hear that you are facing rejections due to a genuine disability. Please permit me to share some perspectives as an older man who has had stuttering all his life and at some point sa...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
2 points

It's a common thing with people with disability/special ability . We are aware that our problems will form the core part of anyone's beliefs about us and thus it's extremely important for us to recogn...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
3 points

Researcher (PhD in chemical Engineering) but switched after I reached a dead end in science since no university wanted to hire me as a stuttering professor - and sitting in second row while other, not...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
1 points

There's a post from me in this sub from a while back that outlines that. In the end though it's habit, I'm mid 50s, I kicked the stutter very late in my 20s. Tough time before then....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
5 points

I’m a commercial agent, so I act as a middle man between negotiations and give advice to clients. It’s tricky when I’m just speaking on the phone, especially when people can get quite frustrated if we...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
2 points

This is always so hard to explain to younger people. Almost everybody adult in this sub has been in this situation I’d imagine. I also completely understand how you are feeling. When I was your age I...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation