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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2023
4 points

I used to do this when I was at school and it would set my confidence back a lot. Not only would I feel bad about not being able to present in front of the class it would make the situation so much wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 29, 2023
2 points

What can we change to improve stuttering? (only when we know this, we are able to accept the things we cannot change, change the things we can, and use the wisdom to know the difference)

What can we change to improve stuttering? (only when we know this, we are able to accept the things we cannot change, change the things we can, and use the wisdom to know the difference) **Question: W...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterApr 28, 2023
54 points

Can't stop thinking about suicide

Can't stop thinking about suicide 20F. Did you have such thoughts? I need to vent a little bit and need an advice what to do in my situation. Stuttering is getting more and more severe all the time de...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterApr 27, 2023
6 points

Perception of others

Perception of others Recently I posted something about me stuttering way more often that I used to. Well, it has gotten worse, to the point that I get blocks on almost every conversation I have, somet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2023
1 points

>It sounds like you are driven to blaming your stutter for your current lack of success with women. I mean, you do know that there are peer reviewed studies about the negative social perceptions a...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
9 points

Why would you blame yourself for something that is out of your control? Instead the blame is on others who are inconsiderate...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

You may want to give voluntary stuttering a try. From personal experience, it was extremely difficult to get myself to do it( 2 years!), but its a very empowering experience. You are stuttering on p...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

OP you have to overcome the MIND games. If you think negative all the time you will believe negative. If you think positive you can genuinely believe positive, i know it may sound cheesy but I’m serio...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationSuicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Lol look at this from a broad perspective, we literally aren't able to do basic human tasks This is pathetic man... We're pathetic...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

I feel similarly. Communication is such a vital part of life. I feel robbed and don't know what to do....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Why do bad blocks make you frustrated and angry? The answer may answer your last question. For me I had no idea how much fear I really had until my 30s. I accepted that stuttering was a part of me a...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

I’m not gonna lie you got me with the avoiding situations part. But I avoid them specific situations because I feel like It’s meant to go bad. And tbh I honestly think I could probably talk to 5 thous...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

One more thought: > I have been facing them since I was younger and I have never gotten a short or less block If you ever word substitute, or avoid situations ( asking a girl out, ordering drive ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

My blocks are longer than 2 minutes and I have been facing them since I was younger and I have never gotten a short or less block, they are always the same. And you should know the feeling of going th...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Call my sons, I don't think I've ever held a proper decent conversation with them, then I would, after all these years do the career I always wanted, but my stutter prevented, become a driving ins...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 22, 2023
23 points

Losing hope

Losing hope (29/F) Really needing some advice or perspective from anyone here. I feel like my stammer is getting in the way of me actualising everything I want in my life. I’m starting to lose hope ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

Hey man, i saw your post somewhere and iirc, you also have a severe-stutter. How did you make your way into it and improve it? Did you use a few techniquess to help lessen it? or just spoke your way t...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

Hey man, how are you doing? We talked just the other day about me wanting to Enter SWE job and how is it in there as a stutterer. So there's not that much difference about the two huh.. what i saw on ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
7 points

These terms are used interchangeably by everyone in the industry, there's not much of a difference in job descriptions. My current job title is "software development engineer" 🙃. About the rest, the...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
4 points

To be clear, you only want to leave because you're frustrated with a few calls? Not because your managers have approached you about doing a better job? I get it. Phone calls can be the worst. If you ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency