One more thought: > I have been facing them since I was younger and I have never gotten a short or less block If you ever word substitute, or avoid situations ( asking a girl out, ordering drive through, public speaking), you are not facing all of your blocks. I am going to assume you are not doing what I meant by "facing your blocks". I am going to infer you face your blocks when you have to (more like going through the motions because you have no other choice). But are you really facing your fear? Are you willing to face those blocks if I asked you speak in front of 5 thousand people right now and speak for 10 minutes?